marraige issues?

Question

What is the best way to resolve an issue with you wife when you ask her to quit doing something several times to do if it hurting you adn she wont. What would you do? Only married people plz

Answer 1

maybe its you. maybe you already do things that annoy her but you dont see it and she doesnt come out verbally with the issue because it would hurt your feelings and quite possibly its her way of trying to communicate with you that its you that is annoying her, not her that is annoying you. there are always two sides in an argument.

Answer 2

my suggestion is this.....tell her the 2 of you need to have a serious talk about what ever it is. tell her your views then ask her hers. ask her why she is dead set on continuing to do this. no matter what she says remain calm. if you are calm about it then she should be also. without knowing what it is that she is doing i can not give a solution but may having a calm discussion (not an argument) then maybe she will let you know why and maybe the 2 of you can come up with a solution together.

what ever it is i hope the 2 of you can work this out. but just in case you can't then i am truly sorry.

Answer 3

if you feel you have tried talking to her then maby you could start to do some things you might think she wont approve of that way she will say to you not to do it then you can turn it back around on to her and say the same thing if that doesnt work you two should go see a counsellor because break down in communication can ruin your marriage over somthing really small

Answer 4

Communication. Give her an example of something that she has objected to and you know that she really hates that thing, and tell her that it would be like you picking up that habit.

Answer 5

Go to dinner with her and then resolve the issue!!!

Answer 6

Explain to her how it hurts you,and how would she feel if you did the same.