do you think that having a baby when youve only been with some one 10 months is a good idea?if not how come?

Answer 1

i knew my ex for a year before i got pregnant. it seemed like we would be together forever, but then the baby was born and it complicated things. he realized babies are expensive and alot of work. so he left me for another girl. he wasn't man enough to step up to the plate. and get this, he can't come visit his son 45 mintue away because his car is broken, but he can go visit his girlfriend 3 hours away in the city. that's fucked up ****. don't have a baby until you are happily married for a year at least. trust me, you do not want to end up like me. i'm lucky if i even get child support. raising a baby alone is no fun and it's really hard. please wait.

Answer 2

It depends. I was with my fiance only a few weeks the first time I got pregnant(no I wasn't a **** he was my first). I miscarried that baby but became pregnant again 4 months later. We've been together 4 years and are very happy. I have been pregnant 4 different times and was using some form of birth control all 4 times (condoms, patch, nuva ring, iud). Some people are just meant for each other as corny as it sounds. Good luck.

Answer 3

The amount of time isn't really what is important, it is whether or not you know you want this person in your life, for your WHOLE life, from here on out. You don't want to have a baby with someone you don't want to be with forever, because (unless they are a deadbeat), they are going to be there forever.

My hubby and I got pregnant when we were only together for 1 and 1/2 years, but that was okay because we already knew how we felt.

Answer 4

It really depends on your relationship. Remember that once you're pregnant, your relationship will change. You'll be tired, nauseous, etc and at some point you may even start "nesting"...

I had my first child with my first husband after we knew each other for 6 years & we ended up divorced. I am now remarried and got pregnant 3 months after we got married and I am very happy, so... it isn't just the length of time. (My husband and I did meet close to 6 years before we had our first daughter, but we didn't start dating until about 2-1/2 years before she was born)

Answer 5

if you are thinking of getting pregnant, i would suggest waiting another 6 months before you considered it. The true person you are with might not have appeared yet, and getting pregnant may just complicate the relationship. Whatever you decide, if you are not married, or talking about getting married, keep in the back of your mind how to raise you child as a single parent. They can alway deny the baby, and proving them wrong can be costly.

Answer 6

I would make sure this is the guy you plan to spend the rest of your life with. Becoming parents changes your life and sometimes if its something that you only want he might resent you. Just make sure its a commitment you both want.My best friend thought it would make her boyfriend love her more after 1yr of being together then she got dumped on feb 14 and know she has to bring up a child on her own and the guy resents her..
Make sure its something you both want..

Answer 7

It sounds a bit premature to me. I think you should be married before you have a baby with someone - that way you know they're committed.

Answer 8

only if you both agree on it.... no man likes to be trapped into a relationship.. some women think that they can do this to them.. if you both are not ready don't.. if you are ready please enjoy and have fun.. and remember marriage is only a piece of paper you don't need to be married to have kids
good luck

Answer 9

no is not a good idea cause i thought the same thing ant it awasent he changed me for another girl

Answer 10

for me it was because he supported me 100% i love him and i know he loves me and so does our son