2006-08-06 11:53:02 · 12 answers · asked by dic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Help her out in the house, help her to find time to rest. Treat her good, take her out.
Don't push her for this, it will make it worste.
Make her feel good about herself, make her feel beautiful.
It takes time but it comes back. Be very patient and happy - she worked hard and still are, she gave you a beautiful child. Thank her much.
2006-08-06 11:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to compliment her and make her feel sexy again because after having kids we don't feel so beautiful anymore especially with all the hormonal changes. Buy her some sexy lingerie that would be comfortable enough for her to wear but sexy as well. Encourage her to take a day off to go have her hair done and stay home with the kids. While she is away, clean up the house and have dinner ready. Make sure she feels wanted and never, ever take her for granted because once that happens I guarantee you based on my own experience that her sex drive will stay way down. There are some very fun websites too that have some fun lotions and massage oils as well as sex toys if you think she might enjoy that...Good luck!
2006-08-06 12:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be considerate of her in other ways - help her get some "her" time cause when you have kids life is not about MOM anymore. run her a bubble bath and light some candles and watch what happens. Leave a love note before you go to work once in awhile. Its the little things that turn a woman on....a touch on the cheek and a compliment everyday. YOu will get it back!!!
Remember sex starts in the morning - be kind and loving and understanding - this is not about you....hormones have changed but with lots of love and understanding watch out they will be back full force....be gentle and maybe read a few books on sex and make things a little more interesting.
2006-08-06 12:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by GP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help with the children, seriously, children are wonderful but they are also exhausting, no matter the age.
help out around the house more, personally if I'm tired the last thing I'm in the mood for is sex. Be romantic,and don't rush sex when you do have it, take it slow and make love, with passion and lots and lots of kisses.
2006-08-06 12:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the honest truth. This happened to me after two children. I finally spoke to my doctor and he put me on low-level hormones. My metabolism had changed after the two kids, and the low-level hormones made up for the difference. WOW!! It sure changed my life!
2006-08-06 12:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash the dishes, do the laundry, vacuum the house, clean the windows, fix dinner, lunch and breakfast. Everyday for a month.
2006-08-06 11:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set dates with her and purchase some Zestra. Good luck
2006-08-06 12:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help them with the housework, simple as!
2006-08-06 11:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all in the mind u work it out
2006-08-06 11:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an affair?
2006-08-06 13:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by soo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋