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My girlfriend and i have had unprotected sex. I'm extremly worried that she could get pregnant cause it'll ruin my life, is there signs i can look for or possible ways to abort it before my parents find out about anything.

2006-08-06 11:50:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

18 answers

There are many signs...I'm going to cover a few things
-Spotting (blood) this is sometimes a sign that the egg is attaching to the uterous
-Tender breasts to the touch
-Morning sickness
-Nasuea
-Missed Period
-Cramps abdominal pain
-Weight gain

There are a few things you can do to tell also my sister once told me you can lay down with a pillow under your butt and you can feel something in your abdoman.

Early detection works great but it has to be within like 5 days of a missed period...but the best time for these to work is after a missed period...and aren't always 100% accurate.

I am sure its prolly to late for this...but they have a pill you can get at Planned Parenthood (depending on your salary can be free up to like $30) but its called the morning after pill (like overdosing on birth control) but this is only effective (75%) up to 3 days after unprotected sex. The other option is the abortion pill but this cant be given to you from planned parenthood you would have to go through like an abortion clinic, also...she has to be preggo for this...can't give it to you as a precaution...and this pill is only affective somewhere around 90 days...then its abortion. But seriously...do not force her to do that. It is something you both need to be in agreement on. But I hope this helps...and good luck

Furthermore...ask her when her last period was...she is more likely to get preggo 14 days after her last period...so count them down...if it was right after her period you should be fine...right before her period you should be fine...and during her period you should be fine...but still be careful next time...hopefully this is all just an eyeopener for you.

2006-08-07 01:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 1 2

There's no "home-remedy" to safely abort a fetus. She would have that done by a doctor at an abortion clinic to be safe. She needs a pregnancy test to determine if she's pregnant and she should do that immediately. I'm glad that you realize how important it is to use protection. Don't get caught up in the heat of the moment next time! Maybe she's not! Good Luck

P.S. Don't listen to some of these people on here. Everyone has made a poor choice at some time or another in their life.

2006-08-06 19:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Someone 3 · 0 0

Little kid, you need to stop playing a grown man's game. Not only do you sound like an insensitive creep, but you would also kill a baby you made just so mommy and daddy don't find out you're playing house. I hope your 'girlfriend' drops you like a hot rock. Also, if you try a home abortion - and end up killing the girl or the fetus, you will go to prison for murder. So, suck it up little boy and go tell your parents what you've been up to, and how you are treating the poor girl who was dumb enough to trust you.

2006-08-06 18:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Inked Fantasy 3 · 0 0

First of all, it's her choice to abort, or keep it. If she wants this potential pregnancy you should have thought about "wrecking" your life before you had sex. The signs can be sore breasts, tiredness, loss or gain of appetite, and frequent urination, as well as spotting. Bear in mind all women are different and some may not experience any of these things, furthermore abortion as far as I know can not be done until a pregnancy is confirmed, earliest about 5 days before a missed period to confirm pregnancy.

2006-08-06 18:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well... IF U DIDN'T HAVE SEX IN THE FIRST PLACE THIS WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED!!! AND IF SHE DOES TURN OUT PREGNANT THEN I SUGGEST U TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY! WHY DOES THE BABY HAVE TO GET ABORTED JUST BECAUSE OF YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIENDS STUPIDITY??? IF U CAN'T HANDLE THE RESPONSIBILITY THEN U SHOULDN'T HAVE HAD SEX IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!! haven't u ever herad of "think before you act" ??? because apparently u and ur girlfriend weren't thinking... no offense or anything... i'm for the cause of anti-abortion... just think for a minute... what if your parents aborted YOU???

2006-08-06 19:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0 0

Grow up and stop having unprotected sex if you don't want to have a baby. If you try to do something to make a woman to miscarriage you'll find out how ruined your life is when you go to jail for murder and attempted murder

2006-08-06 18:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 4 · 0 0

shut tha **** up & get off him about tha unprotected sex shyt! i think he gets tha point!! evry1 makes mistakes and yall come at him lyk u never made 1 damn mistake in ur whole life. ask her if she has missed her period & if she EVER gets sick not just in tha morning. u have 2 buy a pregnancy test so u can b positive. personaly abortion would never b an option 4 me. evrything happens 4 a reason whether we lyk it or not.

2006-08-06 19:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by grlnxtdr_544 1 · 0 0

It's HER decision whether or not to abort the baby - you have no say in it. If she wants to keep it, then she wants to keep it. And you'll be paying child support for the next 18 years.

Lesson number one when it comes to sex: YOU PLAY, YOU WILL PAY!

2006-08-06 18:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Guppy Geek 5 · 0 0

yes a pregnancy test can pick up pregnancy as soon as conception begins. and immediate biochemical change is detected. but then again morning sickness is a good sign. but i think you should go chop off your balls right now before you create a string of fatherless children you selfish !@##@$%%^

2006-08-06 18:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by puzzle55usa 3 · 0 0

Dont worry. If she is pregnant you'll find out soon and your probably just overreacting. I mean if it was just one time and one mistake, God will forgive you. And if she is pregnant maybe you should put it up for adoption. Relax, its not as bad as you think. Good luck! :)

2006-08-06 19:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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