im 27, and still a loser virgin and im horny as heck. i just wanna do it, just once u know, i just wanna know how it feels like.
would that make me bad person? what if i tried one of them escorts? thats cool right? i mean, not all guys can get laid just like that. there are guys like me out there, that really just have no choice. gotta pay for it if we want it.
2006-08-06 11:39:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
NOPE...VISITING A 'LADY OF THE EVENING' WILL NOT NAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. YOU HAVE WANTS AND NEEDS, SO THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. IF YOU CHOOSE TO VISIT A PROSTITUTE, PLEASE PLAY SAFE AND BE CAREFUL WHERE YOU GO....YOU'RE NOT A LOSER EITHER. ACTUALLY, BEING A VIRGIN IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF. THATS SOMETHING THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE WILL ADMIRE ABOUT YOU. ONE DAY YOU'LL MEET SOMEONE NICE AND YOU'LL HAVE A HAPPY LIFE. DONT BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF. GOOD LUCK TO YOU. YOUR FUTURE WILL BE BRIGHT.
2006-08-06 15:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by eddie d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would just be your own business, but since you threw it out here on the board, expect some honest answers from people on here..So, here we go, well, you might want to think about catching something from a prostitute..(like a disease) has that ever crossed your mind? I guess not because you're so horny.
It wouldn't make you a bad person, just a desperate person in need of some serious satisfaction. What's up with you? why do you not have a girl friend? You label yourself as a loser virgin, your problem maybe your insecurities. Try fixing yourself up, buy some nice clothes that fits your personality, get a nice hair cut, a peice of jewlery, no bling bling, but a nice watch, or ring, or both.
Find some confidence and security, meet up with some friends and try attracting women that way. Don't degrade yourself with someone who has no self esteem and has been used by other men. You two together will equal double insecurity. One has sex because he is desperate and the other has sex to get paid. How pathetic is that.
No sympathy here dude, think higher about yourself and find someone worth having sex with, at least after you have gotten to know her! Stop short changing yourself and find someone who is decent, smart, has a job or doing something constructive with their life.
Might not be the answer you are searching for, but you did ask, so I am answering and throwing my opinion in there...
2006-08-06 19:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by cherrypopsickle2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll meet the right person one day and when you do, it will be worth the wait.
If you marry someone, you're going to have to be open and if she finds out the only person you've been with is a prostitute, she will think of you as more of a loser.
Being a virgin is not loser. It's treating women like objects that's loser. I think if you really want to find someone, go to the gym more and you may even meet someone there. I guess if you're desperate to find someone, just ask loads of people out. Someone has to say yes.
2006-08-06 18:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by anon1mous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser, just another horny guy. Just make sure you use protection. And pay her. I wouldn't go bragging about it to people though.
Sounds as if you are very shy. If you started talking to girls, it could lead to something. The more you do it, the easier it will become. Take a chance. Don't be sensitive to rejection. If that happens, try another one. You need to start living, man. Go for it.
2006-08-06 18:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but Don't make your first be some ho, paying for it is the easy way out. You would be more manley and cool to hold out for some other virgin w/no disease so then you can go with out a stupid condom and feel the real pleasure for the first time! Oh Yeah! anyway, prostitution is legal in NV but not Las Vegas.
2006-08-06 18:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the 40-year-old virgin. Is that the life you want to lead?
2006-08-06 21:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by caitie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would make you a bad person. Sex is NOT about having an orgasm.....you can do that yourself. Sex is about sharing the entirety of oneself.
Find a girlfriend and DATE and court her......
Or use your hand for Pete's sake! No diseases there!
2006-08-06 18:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is your life, and I don't know if it makes you a bad person, but it does make you a criminal. Prostitution is illegal in most places, except Amsterdam.
2006-08-06 18:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by peachzncream3127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it...just use protection. I wouldn't tell anyone though. Be careful; nothing says luvin's like a blister.
2006-08-06 18:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by LadeeBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of women out there in your situation. Who don't you do both of yourselves a favor and not lose it to someone who's just going to screw you in more ways than one.
2006-08-06 19:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Don M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋