Me && my b/f have been goin out for 2 yrs. && lately he's been bein a a**. Soo i had a guy frined talk to him. Just to ask simple Q like r u still in luv with her, r u happy. He hold him "well after being with sum1 for 2 yrs. the realtionship just gets normal. What exactly does this mean 'NORMAL'??
O he doesn't know i had my friend talk to him.
2006-08-06 11:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by FlyAway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will he think to cheat on me?
2006-08-06 11:37:54 · update #1
This is what is known in relationshipville as being taken for granted. Its like the relationship has gotten stale, the same old thing. He has come to take you for granted, that you will always be there, do the same old things, nothing with you ever really changes. Time has come for you to use your imagination and spruce up your relationship if you want to save it Also be careful when you have someone else do your spying, it has a way of coming around and then youll be sorry. Good luck
2006-08-06 11:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If you want this to work out you need to spice things up a bit. I know I been married for 12 years and my man and I talk about everything. Man Like new things even more in the bed room go to your adult store and get some toy for you and him to keep thing fresh and new. I think that he just wants some action in his life and you have to give it to him or he will go look for it.
good luck hope everything works out fo you
2006-08-06 18:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he certainly is not bored,but now he is used to you so much,that i think he wants someone else. he wants to experience with other people,cuz now,you know,he thinks he is tired of goin to the same person everyday.
THATS THE BEST N SIMPLEST N NICEST WAY I CUD PUT IT.
the best thing i think you could do now is B BRAVE N END IT WITH HIM,before he does it with you. it might b hard for you to do that though,considering the 2 years. well,he might b relieved,happy,sad,even if he is happy bout' it, he might
eventually love you again cuz he will want to go back with you,he will miss you. it might not happen so soon,but it will.
good luck
2006-08-06 18:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by gabi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What that means is that he is bored and probably taking you forgranted. Since he is just a boyfriend, you don't have to stay with him. You should feel lucky that you can dump him and not have to go to court.
2006-08-06 18:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal in a relationship to be a jerk. So if he thinks your relationship has settled down to a routine, and his routine is being a jerk, time to move on.
2006-08-06 18:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal means that he doesn't think he has to worry about romancing you. You aren't going anywhere. He doesn't have to be on his best behavior.
2006-08-06 18:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is basically grown used to being with you and is comfortable. Oryou can say you have become habit.
2006-08-06 18:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Karen Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh...... he sounds bored
2006-08-06 18:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋