my father hav a girlfriend and my mom dont know anythin..wht should i do?

Question

my dad s 43 and look much younger...i saw him with hes girlfriend more thn 2 times...shes so young..just few years older thn me(im 20)..but my dad think tht i dont know hes secret.i hate it bc my mom dont know it and i pity for her..wht should i do?

Answer 1

Tell your mom. He deserves it. I have my doubts she doesn't already know. I guarantee she's at LEAST suspicious.

Answer 2

I believe the best course would be to discuss the situation with your father.

If you feel uncomfortable on your own, perhaps you could get a school counselor / administrator or other individual you felt you could trust to be with you when you discuss the matter with him.

If your father doesn't agree to stop the affair, or to tell your mother of the affair, then I feel you should be honest with your mother. Sometimes what we don't say is as much a lie as otherwise.

Answer 3

Bring your best camera next time they are together and take pictures. Then, talk to your dad and ask him to confess the truth to your mom or stop his dishonest behavior and give him time to confess. If he does not "fess up" or stop his cheating by Thanksgiving, show your mom the pictures and be prepared to go through a possible divorce experience. That is what I would do If I were you. I hope he will stop. Best wishes.

Answer 4

You are 20. Tell your dad you know, that it is wrong to deceive your mum who loves him and has been a good wife. That you are very sorry, and although you love him, unless he gives up the other woman you will have to tell your mom.

Answer 5

Absolutely nothing. Don't assume your Mom doesn't know. Don't assume this woman means anything to your father. Do you have PROOF she is his girlfriend
This is not your marriage. With the ages you're describing, it will probably blow over - no harm - no foul. He probably LOVES your mother. Do not get involved - it's not up to you. Do you want them to get divorced over some bimbo? Do you want to start it?
Please get some help with your spelling and grammar...

Answer 6

Let your dad know that you saw him twice and where.
That he should tell your mom and give him a date to tell her by.
Like 2 or three days.
Then after that if he doesn't tell your mom and keeps on being unfaithful then you should tell your mom.She probably already knows something is going on.

Answer 7

Invite ur dad for coffree or lunch...
just u and him...
sit down and talk to him like a daughter...
never interogate, just state your point and make it clear...

ask him what he wants...
and how to deal with mum now...
its not u to be the middle person or to keep his secret...
he should be responsible for his own actions..
hope u will not have to decide a ugly decision...
all da best alright...

Answer 8

That hurts really bad because my friend's husband cheats on her constantly and left her in a financial wreck. They are not divorced. I have little use for spouses who cheat on each other. There is really nothing you can do except talk to your father and ask him why he's disrespecting your mother like that.

Answer 9

u should just tell ur mom. i mean maybe its just for the best. if ur dad is really having an affair that's just harming u and ur mom. however if u let his secret out it's only going to benefit u. and it;s gonna help ur mom. this way she could meet other people who truly love her and won't treat her like ur dad does

Answer 10

Stay in school and learn to write English. Make mom proud

Answer 11

Hey, I ran into that situation when I was 15 maybe younger and I had to tell my mom. It is something you have to do. I was surprised to learn my mom already suspected. yours probably does too.