this drives me insane i mean blah blah blah popular blah blah blah boyfriends blah blah blah blah BLAH BLAH
who cares? their just normal people that u consider better than you because of your low self confidence! i am 13 and hate it hen people always obsess over that!
2006-08-06 11:05:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I agree. It gets worse once you get to highschool. I'm 16 and the drama never stops at my school. Everyone wants to hang out with the popular kids, and I could never understand why. They're not as cool as everyone thinks. I just be myself, and don't care what everyone else thinks.
2006-08-06 11:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, me. It's refreshing to know there is a young teen out there who really doesn't define their being by the "popularity ruler". My son is 11 and, so far, doesn't really care much what other people say and think. He is his own man. I hope he continues on this path, because in the long haul of things, it doesn't matter at all! The ones considered nerdy or uncool in school are the ones who are millionaires today. Think about it. It's just really hard being in school and being an outcast. I was a popular girl, but it was because I didn't hang with one select crowd. I talked and joked with everybody. It paid off for me. Now I counsel all the popular crowds dysfunctional offspring! Good luck honey and thanks for the wisdom of youth.
2006-08-06 11:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do not want to live in obscurity. The quest to become a household name.people can become popular for many reasons too; Good Looks, Excellent Athlete, Intelligence, Sense of Humor, Great Personality, Philanthropy, Great Musician, etc.
Being just plain popular, is a social quest to achieve a place in the sun.
2006-08-06 11:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, yet i anticipate you're truly a kind of human beings *properly-known* youngsters want to call "losers". i'm previous that era in my existence now, operating and all. i changed into truly a kind of youngsters too, those that were given decrease out, I in no way cared to be thoroughly hardship-free. yet, like you, I surely have said that human beings were - and nonetheless are - particularly obsessed on acceptance. Even worse; they placed demands on human beings. I surely ought to say, outdoors of school i'm very properly-known contained in the *actual* international because i'm only being myself and do not attempt to be some different person. also, perchance because for some unexplained reason, i'm *continuously* ahead of trend tendencies, and perchance - only perhaps - because i'm tremendous to seek suggestion from... See, the demands they make in college are diverse from the demands they make in actual existence. some youngsters will study the version even as they end college, and some in no way will - and those are the pathetic ones... i have considered a number of those in my very last classification. incredibly humorous sight, incredibly :p
2016-11-23 13:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by duzan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed away from the popular kids in high school the girls were nothing more than sluts. I had the coolest group of friends I hung with. And yes, for 13 years old your a smart thing, it does have everything to do with low self esteem...
2006-08-06 11:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they obsess over it because they have money, guys, PILES of make-up on their faces, you will look better then them whenever you want, the popular kids are just people, they are just extremely skinny and truly ugly. don't obsess, be smart and stay you! I was considered very popular before i turned 13, then people decided goth and punk was in, i acted that way just to get my friends back! i realized that they weren't friends with me, they were friends with my looks, money, clothes, etc. don't give in, get real friends!
2006-08-06 11:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mizermelon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u may be just 13, but u have strong feelings about this subject. any thing some one wants to the extreme is a form of greed pure & simple.
2006-08-06 11:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually they have the low self esteem, they never do rejection well and can't deal with reality 99% of the time.
2006-08-06 11:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i couldnt agree more, i think ppl obsess over popularity because they think its the only way thru life, if im not popular then im a nobody, and thats far from true.
2006-08-06 11:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's typical middle school/high school stuff.....don't let it get to you. Just be yourself, be happy and keep busy with your friends as well as your studies. By senior year you'll all be passed that nonsense and go on to college as a confident, poised, young woman.
2006-08-06 11:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by miatalise12560 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋