He has made a pass at my son and told him that he was Bi, but when ever I ask him about it, he starts a fight. Since he made the pass at my son I have found more evidance of him being that way, what do I do?
2006-08-06 10:54:48 · 19 answers · asked by Berrypink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How about LEAVE.
He made a pass at your son and you think your problem is he is Bi??? HE IS A CHILD MOLESTER.
Get out and get out NOW, protect your son, your husband being bi or not is the least of your concerns.
2006-08-06 11:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being bisexual and married. It is disturbing to learn that your husband is making passes at your son. That is really creepy. If that never happened in the first place, I would just say do what you can to make yourself and husband "both" happy. Work things out.
But hitting on your son...... that crosses some line that should not be crossed. Especially when you two are married. Get rid of him
2006-08-06 11:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by NïghtStalkër_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooooooooow... it's one thing if he's bi outside of your relationship but he made a pass at your son.. if your son coroborates this then you may need to leave the relationship if he refuses to acknowledge your suspicions and continues to lie to you. This can get much worse if he is active with other men and using protection with you... you thenn have to worry about your health and welfare.... It's a shame that the relationship has to suffer but you have no choice here if he is forcing your hand... Maybe family counseling will help but at this moment wow I'm more concerned about your son around this man. What ever happens god bless and wish you the best.
2006-08-06 10:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to get your son out of the house and soon. If you have confronted him about it and he starts a fight with you that is his way of avoiding the truth or admitting the truth to you. What you should ask yourself is "If/when he admits this, do I want to stay in this relationship?" Do I trust him around my son? What or who has he been with other than me?"
2006-08-06 12:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This goes way beyond issues of "bi" or other designations of sexuality. It is completely inappropriate for your husband to make advances to anyone, much less a member of your family, much less your son! That and his angry responses are the reasons to get far away from him.
2006-08-06 11:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by byama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be or leave him. he can get something that will destroy ur family but the thing is that he sad that he was so i think its OK. maybe he is afraid to say it or doesn't want u to know about something so bad. talk to him tell him its OK u know that he was bi but ask him r u still bi or not if he says no then drop the subject and go out for diner with him or something else something romantic
2006-08-06 11:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would get to a lawyer ASAP to file for divorce. Him making a pass at your son is just plain wrong and should not be tolerated.
2006-08-06 11:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's not a pervert/pedophile? It doesn't sound like merely a case of being "bi" (which I don't believe in). Where did you pick this guy up? Have you been married before?
2006-08-06 11:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made a pass at your SON and he's still there for you to wonder about???
He's not the real problem now, YOU are!
Get him away from your SON!!! NOW!!! YESTERDAY!!!
2006-08-06 11:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by justanoldguyfromky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him out of your home! Any man that would try that on your son is not to be trusted. Who cares of his preferences. Your son matters most. Get him out!
2006-08-06 10:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋