My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months. I think he wants to take it to the next level but I dont. I feel bad sometimes because he is older than me and him and his ex-girlfriend did stuff together. I dont want to do anything because I want to make sure that i love him frist.
2006-08-06 10:52:43 · 17 answers · asked by ellie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you feel you would die for them. Unless you know, right now, that if it came down to it, your SO is in front of a train, his foot is stuck, and you were willing to risk your life, knowing it probably will kill you even if you end up NOT being able to save him, just to try to get his leg out to get him away from the train...
and either way, saving him or not, once your on the tracks you're dead, and you KNOW that...
you still go.
just for the slight possibility that he might live, knowing that once you try to rescue him, you won't get out of it alive.
if you are willing to do that, then yes. it's love.
it's a bit dramatic, but really. sacrifice is love.
2006-08-06 10:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Zyxxin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel your ready then dont. You will probably regret it later if you do something that your not comfortable with. This can be a test for him also, if he is willing to wait until you are ready then that is a good sign that he is worth it. If he keeps pressuring you or doesnt want to be with you because your not ready then you shouldn't waste another second with him. When you love someone your experience will be 10 times better. Take things slow, do what you feel comfortable with. Dont do it just cause he wants you too. Be Safe!
2006-08-06 18:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready and he doesnt wanna wait then maybe he just isnt the right one -here is my story-
when i met my husband now..i was 23, i had a son and alot that i had been through. He lived across the street from me, and he would come over, we couldnt be separated. One night when he was outside he was standing outside on our back porch and we was talking, and i had an urge come over me, i wanted to kiss but i realized he was shy and in that moment he was falling in love with me. I for a short while took this for granted thought oh it couldnt be, and then we went through some hard times and remained together and i knew that i belonged. We now have been married 4 yrs and have 3 kids.
2006-08-06 18:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by away right now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything with anyone that quickly. You can find out a lot about someone after you have been with them for six months. He may end up being someone that you don't want to be with. Don't let him pressure you. You could end up being that ex girlfriend when you give it up. Take your time to decide if he is the one and when you are ready, you'll know.
2006-08-06 17:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by ladycashmere79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in love you would know it. but just because your in love with him is still not the only reason for taking it to the next level. More to the point is he in love with you ? you may now be saying well he says he does ? but now think about this if he is really in love with you,you should feel the love he has for you in every thing he does and says. But even then if your not ready to take it to the next level then don't if he says ill leave you if you don't then you have to ask again does he really love me.
2006-08-06 18:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that your not ready for. You will lose your self respect if you do love is more then sex it's a real feeling that must be express before you give in
2006-08-06 18:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to think about it all that much. If you love him, you should know. Your level of analysis makes me think you are not yet ready.
2006-08-06 17:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until it feels "right" to you, you will know this because you won't need ask yourself if what you are doing is okay.
2006-08-06 18:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you must ask the question you will never know the answer if you live to be 100 what are you now about 12 ?????????
2006-08-06 23:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by blue m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smart girl if you feel it is not right then it is not right! you have to listen to your inner voice, who cares what his other girlfriend did she is gone in the past!! you are his girlfriend now!! if he cant respect that then bye bye loser!! dont do it
2006-08-06 17:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by ljjmollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋