Hi, I am a gay liberal/democrat and I have a question...?

Question

The other day this mean republican guy in our office found out that I like to wear womens underwear. I was bending over at the water fountain and my thong stuck out. He laughed at me and called a typical male liberal.He has said nothing else since, but it realyl hurt my feelings. Should I report him to my boss? Is there anything he can do to fire him or the such?

Answer 1

No, get real dude. He was just stating his opinion. He wasnt harrasing you in anyway. If he was calling you a fag or something maybe you could do something. And by the way, beinga a guy and letting your thong stick out of pants you were just asking for someone to insult you.

Answer 2

If you were just called a typical male liberal and that was it, then No not really.

If he said that because you are wearing girls thongs that makes you a liberal, then yes. The difference is that he is using a sexually related item to infer a slur on you.

Would you get anywhere with it doubtful.

How ever, I would go to your boss and tell him/her about it and then ask that there be nothing said but ask to have an eye kept on him.

You don't go to work to be harassed or humiliated, and you are certainly not there for some jerk to get entertainment from.

Answer 3

they're ignorant and are not used to alter. human beings are fearful of substitute, and the 1st time they see somebody whose different than themselves they have an inclination to act in a negitive way because of fact they don't understand the situtation. I completely do not see how 2 gay human beings can turn a newborn gay, yet 2 promptly mom and dad finally end up having a gay newborn besides. And besides that, what's so undesirable some gay newborn?

Answer 4

Go Home ... and put some clothes on .... If your in a professional position you dont need to be wearing clothing revealing enough to be revealing your thong.... When I wear my thong I'm in drag so people are happy to see it ... perhaps you should make a career change.... In our society it isnt socially acceptable for men to wear womens undergarments... Unless it looks fabulous and there are no str8 people around to offend.... You know being offended works two ways... If you're giving a reason for someone to say something when they say it you shouldn't have any thing to be offended about... It's all about shock effect dear... Happy thonging

Answer 5

If it had been me I have givin you a friggin wedgie for being so inconsiderate
of your fellow employees. That's the kind of behavior that furthers stereotypes of various individuals if you catch my drift!!! You walk around like that in a business setting and you will cause friction - I would not like it.

Badda Boom Badda Bing Yuk Yuk

Answer 6

As a conservative republican, I'd say if it happens again go ahead and report him. Workplaces should allow for all kinds of people to do their work.

If you're really offended, go ahead and report him now. It's you're right. Although I don't agree with your lifestyle, it's legal. And what he did was flat-out wrong and he needs to be told so.

Answer 7

Hi, I a straight/democrat female and I have an answer.... and a question.
Answer: Doesn't sound like a gay attack to me being called a liberal. So I think I would let that one go. viva la difference.
Question: How does anybody stand a string up their buns? I would rather be nude. :-)

Answer 8

Your thong stuck out? Man, funniest thing ive read all day. Just be glad I wasnt there.

Answer 9

No he only commented. He didnt harrass you...
Besides if your thong stuck out, i would laugh too..At anyone, if your pants are that low that your buttocks or undies hang out, I laugh..

Answer 10

You want someone fired because he hurt your feelings?? Grow up!