We broke up very suddenly and had, up to that point even been considering marriage and children. She was out with another guy that night and is still with him. She and I argued a lot after we broke up but now when she calls she will ask me if I was happy with our sex life and if I think she is prettier than random girls she names. I even told her once not to call me again but she still calls. I love her but I dont understand why she is doing all this. If we are over shouldn't she just let me go.
2006-08-06 10:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by arikinder 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
gurl language this emans i made a mistake i still like u or wanna get back together that's simple gurl language............
2006-08-06 10:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by ARIEL B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could be confused..and doesn't know what or who she wants. My x-g/f told me the romantic part of our relationship was over. She called me all the time too even to say 'goodnight' when she was going to bed, and continued to tell me she loved me.
I strongly suspected she was seeing someone else because of her behaviour in not answering her cellphone while she was away on a week's vacation and the excuse she used was that she didn't have any privacy (why???) or that she was having trouble charging her cellphone, but when she DID call one time, the line was crystal clear and when asked, she said she was on her cellphone at the time yet she said she was being interrupted by an in-coming call. Impossible to be interrupted when you're using the line...a suspected lie. I believe she was using a landline. All said and done, she had mentioned some guy's name who happened to be with the 'group'..this is a guy she had mentioned about being tempted to go out with. So..I finally woke up, and told her we were through..and not to call me anymore..I didn't want to hear from her..no emails either.
Buddy..do the same thing. If you go back with her, you're in for a world of hurt. Enquiring about your sex life with her is in bad taste for her to do so. She's playing mind games. Get out..and start meeting other people. I did..and found the most wonderful girl ever. By the way...I married her June 3, and have never been happier.
Good luck, Buddy!!!
2006-08-06 11:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by orangefrostie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just realizing she made a mistake and she wants you back. She is not happy with this other guy if she calls you all the time. If I were you I would ask her if she is happy with this guy and also ask her why she asks you those questions and calls you all the time. If she admits she wants you back then tell her to drop the other guy and if its worth it to you then give it another chance. If its not worth it to you or if she says she doesn't want to be with you then tell her she needs to stop asking questions like that and calling so often so you can move on just like she did.
2006-08-06 10:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that then. It seems like she has self - confidence issues. She wants to know that she is still wanted, and beautiful and all those things. She wans reinforcement from you, her boyfriend and probably the world. She is also probably second guessing the break up. (although this we cannot be sure of)
You may want to tell her simply she's a great girl but you need distance from her (or some BS line) and block her number or avoid her calls if needed.
2006-08-06 10:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by JenniferJeanne84fromCanada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a few things....
1. She broke up with you and thinks it's a mistake.
2. She broke up with you for attention from you... or to test your feelings for you. (mind games)
3. The guy she's dating isn't meeting her needs emotionally so she's coming to you to fill in the gaps.
Either way playing games is immature. I would suggest being the adult and confronting her on it. Why are you calling? Is something missing from your relationship with the new guy? If you need space to heal you need to stand up for yourself and tell her. Be upfront about what you want/expect from her and if she's not willing to do the same, then move on.
2006-08-06 10:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's not dependable. It sounds like she took you for granted and wanted the 'test the waters' with said-guy. Also seems like she's starting to want you again. I wouldn't get back together with her if she asks... As said earlier, she isn't dependable, and she'll probably do it again if she sees something (or someone, really...) she wants.
2006-08-06 10:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Slippers 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because it may still be a part in her that cant let you go for several reasons.One reason could be she probably think you have a girl or she don't want you to see any body else.
2006-08-06 10:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by zayda t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She tryna keep you on a leash. She feels that if she wanted you back she can get you back, you need to ignore her calls and find some one else.
2006-08-06 15:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋