If your step dad was being an asshole and he got pissed because you did not respond with "Yes Sir" or "NO Sir" and then puched you as hard as he could because of it what would you do?
My step dad was in the army and thinks he is still there
2006-08-06 09:56:08 · 24 answers · asked by James 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
this is just a hypothetical question
2006-08-07 03:59:28 · update #1
I'm currently in the army...and it doesn't surprise me that someone would do such a thing. You could say...Sir Parade Rest...lol...jk don' do that...
But honestly your best bet would be prolly to do nothing at all..unless it continues...
The reasons I say that is because if you report him prematurly you could make the situation worse...but if his actions continue you really need to seek outside help...talk to a teacher...or even go to the police department...but you need to have proof of these allegations...so when he does it and makes a mark...go straight to the police...he shouldn't harm you...and you shouldn't stand for it...if it was a one time shot...let it be...but if it continues you need to seek outside help.
2006-08-07 01:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 8⤊ 1⤋
WEll i think it is your chose of saying yes sir or no sir he is a grown up but if u don't like him hey don't say nothing and if he punchs u again tell your mom or someone else i think he thinks he can contorl everyone because he has been in the army tell him he is not no more and to leave you the hell alone ok then bye
2006-08-06 10:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your pastor, priest or teacher
report to school counselor
Child Protective Services (what it is called in California) will come and investigate if they think you are telling the truth
be sure to tell the same person everytime it happens
PS - it is not hard to say yes sir and no sir
it is also rude not to respond to an adult
2006-08-06 10:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is pray to God about the situation, and tell your mother. But make sure that you at least answer him the way that he ask to avoid being hit, and in pain. Plus "Yes Sir" and "No Sir" is nothing but respect. Maybe is took it as disrespect when you didn't answer him that way. But pray about it. Everything will be okay.
2006-08-06 10:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Yung-Poet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my step mom.
I would talk to your mom about it if that didn't work. then i would go somewhere else for help like a teacher, an adult you can trust or just find away out like staying with a realtive because you dont have to stay there. no one should be abused. I had to leave because my dad loved her more then he started to hitting me too.
2006-08-06 10:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was wrong what he did. He had no right to do that. You should tell your mom, or report him to the police. No one, especially someone who is not your parent can hurt you like that. Next time just punch him back, or kick him in the balls. Whatver you decide, good luck!
2006-08-06 10:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel bad about it. My father is an achoholic and just loves to throw me out of the house every now and then, hey and im only 12. dont stand up for yourself, ive tried that allready
2006-08-06 11:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far away from him. Call the police. That is physical abuse and you don't have to take it. Does your mom know this is happening? Tell her Mom's will choose their children over husbands.
2006-08-06 10:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telll someone you trust about this situaiton. It could be a rabbi or minister or priest, a teacher, or a relative or even a friend's Mom.
Good luck to you!
2006-08-06 09:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen my step dad does that i just sit and take it cause i guess if i respond it makes it worse but i know what you mean my step dad thinks hes a dictator!
2006-08-06 11:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by beyond beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋