We were at the mall and I was trying on jeans and he liked this one pair so he smacked me on the butt loud...everyone could hear it I was very embarrassed. I asked him not to do that again....he has done that randomly a few other times. I was like its only OK if you do that in private not with everyone watching. He says I should loosen up. What should I do?
2006-08-06 09:30:47 · 10 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know - how I feel about hat, is who cares what everyone else thinks? If you're happy and he's happy, then nothing else matters in those situations. If that happened to me, I think I'd just laugh and end up flirting back with my boyfriend. You should relax a little...if you're always worried about what people will think...you'll always be self-concious...and that's not very fun, is it? Take Care!
2006-08-06 09:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by ------ 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
I have always found it interesting how when someone does something to cross the line, they always make it about how you aren't "open-minded" enough and that you should loosen up. It's a manipulative way to say, "I will do whatever the eff I want and if you call me on something, I'll make it look like you are the one with the problem."
If he cared about you, he would listen to you and wisen up.
2006-08-06 09:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect you wanting to keep that in private he obviously disrespects you and the way you think. I would say dump him and find someone that respects your wishes.
2006-08-06 09:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are uptight...but you can always...
point and laugh at him every chance you get. tell people they make love to trees...and always tell others that you caught him dancing alone to Kenny G.
that is good revenge.
2006-08-06 09:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by embigguns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time he does that in public, grab his dick.
See how he likes it.
2006-08-06 09:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he cares for you, he would respect your wishes.
2006-08-06 09:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Nadie0822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud' loosen up!
2006-08-06 09:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by gr8_steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap him in the balls.
2006-08-06 09:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM AND FIND SOMEONE NEW
2006-08-06 09:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Chargisss. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, losen up... chill, smacking butts are a good thing, just ask him to like.. i dunno... do it "quieter?" lol
2006-08-06 09:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by Whompa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋