I have been in a relationship with another man as long as we been broken up put 3 times out of a week i will have a dream about him I dont want him back becuase i dont deserve him i cheated on him alot anf took him for granted. I have children with the person i am with and we kive together and i dont want this to hender my relationship what can i do to stop thinking about him
2006-08-06 08:48:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you must have really liked him
2006-08-06 10:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by LilAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
i think that maybe feeling guilt for what happened in your past relationship because you now see where you were wrong, and if you ended this past relationship with closure and letting him know that you were sorry for the hurt, but left the relationship with mixed feelings at the time of anger, and hurt, all together then your left with all the what you should of said and didnt say,, and if you leave things like that and get into another relationship and things are currently going on that are not right sometimes it will trigger you to think of a past relationship with someone you had that fullfilled that area , your having a problem with in your currently relationship,, im not saying you dont care or love him, but it will cause you to dream or think about someone from the past sometimes,, look at that past relationship and see how you can apply it to your current relationship maybe theres something from that dream, that may apply to your current one and may not necessarily mean you are thinking of your ex like that.. right your dream down on paper and read it , you may find out why your having that dream,, even write down the little details , of coarse do this when your alone, so you can give it a good thought,, i hope this will help, good luck
2006-08-06 09:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by babygirlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheated on him something was lacking in the relationship so why do you want to jeopardize what you have now for something that wasn't working 5 years ago ?
2006-08-06 08:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mind busy, dont worry about it, youre thinking about it to much, you feel guilty, dont anymore get over it, if you feel that guilty contact him to get out of your chest if you havent yet , if not get a diary, write it somewhere, maybe that will help, make sure you dont leave laying around for someone to see it of course,
2006-08-06 09:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by lax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋