Why can't I make friends?

Question

I am a person who can nice if given the chance. Each time I reach out to people, I either get rejected or ignored. I find myself being to myself. I would attend parties only to feel isolated. I tried to be social and outgoing but it felt artificial.

At times I could cry out of lonliness because I failed. It's frustrating as hell sometimes. what can i do to be more outgoing?

Answer 1

It's a really bad thing to be left out when everyone is fitting in.Try to hang with new people this upcoming school year-if theres any new kids try to befriend them.I wish you the best of luck and hope my advise works!!!
Emii
also if u wanna b pals I am on yahoo360!

Answer 2

I can understand why your frustrated what you can try to do is try to find people like yourself at parties, if you see someone else sitting by themselves go up and talk to them introduce yourself ask them whats up find common ground with them and let it flow. Now when people ignore or reject you just let it go try not to let that hold you down like before you go out give a little talk to yourself say you are a great person and if someone else can't see that they are not worth my time. The only thing thing that can make you more outgoing is to have more confidence and to get more confidence talk to a family member and ask them to kinda boost you ego not to make you cocky or anything but just stuff to make you feel that your so great it don't matter what you say or do your great i know that must sound a little wired but i know that when my friends sometimes tell me positive stuff about me i get more confident around them. Well all i can say is good luck and trust me there is someone out there who will think your great and want to be your friend you just have to find them.

Answer 3

all i can say is you need to talk more to more people, if everyone already knows that you are a "loner" (no offense) then they might not want to talk to you. unless u start talking about all these cool things that happened to you-like brag. or do something a little on the wild side... at parties try to dance and be the center of attension, if you can dance. or sing, if you can sing. If no one-in your school-really likes u then ask your parents if you can transfer to a different school.

Answer 4

I don't know how you look, but it happens sometimes that though person is soft and simple natured, his face expressions look hard and rude, and people try to keep distance from you. You must try to mix up a lot with people....speak up more freely, tell them jokes, praise people on there faces even if you don't feel like, do things which will make the opposite person feel happy..... when people will start feeling comfortable with you , you will start getting friends in your life.........keep trying

Answer 5

don't worry...friendz will come. u don't hav 2 go 2 parties 2 b social. meet ppl in skool, or at ur neighborhood. just continue 2 b nice and try 2 be noticeable

Answer 6

I know how you feel. It is a brutal world. I only have a handful of friends. Most of time I am alone. There is no shame in being a loner.

Answer 7

im the same,man, except i dun give a damn!!
dun try to be like others, just be you.
if u dun get frenz for being u...,then they r not ur fren.
maybe u need to get more experience of the world. do travel.
just wait...untill then, stick to internet chating. if u get many frenz on net, then ur fine. In real world, ur appearace do count.Get it??

Answer 8

That's hard. Maybe you're going through an awkward phase. See if you can email Megan.

Answer 9

Why do u feel u don't have friends.
the ones answering u really think u deserve their answers.


Just don't worry 1 day u'll also find some1

Answer 10

im the same way i understand you completely I need a friend too. if you want to be friends send me an e-mail [e-mail]