2006-08-06 08:26:14 · 11 answers · asked by noname 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree. Staying together for the kids is crap. Kids are perceptive and are going to be happier and more balanced when their parents are happy and well balanced. You cannot obtain these things in an unhappy marriage. It may be painful for everyone, but if the adults involved act like adults, then everyone else will adjust just fine and this will have a positive impact on every aspect of the lives of those involved.
2006-08-06 08:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by perfectprincess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it all depends on the situation. I'm going to assume you have kids. if both parents are willing to remain fully active in the children's lives after the divorce and be humane to each other, then yes the lives of the kids and yourselves will be more level. but if after the divorce one of the parents becomes detached and even more unstable then no. my parents divorced when i was a baby. i lived with my mother my whole life after that. i never saw my father except for brief random times. during all of these times my mother and father yelled at each other constantly. to this day i can not trust my father. this situation has affected me in all my own relationships as well. if my father had kept more of a presence in my life things would have been different.
2006-08-06 15:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by ericaolga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I actually think that it's common sense. If there are no children, then getting away from a negative experience can only add character and opportunity to your life. If there are children involved, and depending on their age, it may very well endhance their life as well if their parents are able to pursue happiness. Children love it when their parents are happy and they can sense it when their parents are not.
2006-08-06 15:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have kids or a kid no, not unless they hate one of the parents and dont get along with them, but if its just you and your spouse it all depends on your feelings for each other, if one isnt in love with the other but the other is still in love with them then it can hurt that person physicaly and emosionaly. but if you both think its not working out then ya it can have a possitive spin to it. in some cases the two can remain friends but in others they decide to go there seperate ways
2006-08-06 15:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by jayz45216 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what grounds divorce is for... sometimes its just taken on matter if handle mautrely can be taken care of ...it can be positive to an extent if both of them are happy after it... but its very sad when its connected with their kid n his future
2006-08-06 16:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very positive? No. But, it can be less negative than the marriage is.
2006-08-06 15:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
partially. if you fight all the time and your spouse is abusive, then yes, divorce will be a good change. otherwise, your kids will be soooo confused
2006-08-06 16:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes in can be especially if it was not a happy marriage which I am guessing it wasn't.
2006-08-06 15:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless it's leaving an abusive relationship.
2006-08-06 18:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by NICOLE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree. totally
2006-08-06 15:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Antonio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋