I decided to look at my bf's text messages and I am glad I did because there were several messages on there obviously from girls and the two that made me the most mad said "I wish I could have spent time with you today" and "I dont think you'll be able to sleep over my house tonight". What would you do if you seen that??? Break up with him? I need some advice girls!!!!
2006-08-06 08:23:27 · 11 answers · asked by stacianastacia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dude, as a guy, i know that hes ******* around on you. you should probably kill him.
2006-08-06 08:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by sendmenospam124 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is the worst variety of male. i think they have a word for it...Sociopath? This guy is enjoying the harmless till shown accountable card, which consistently ends up in accountable. No guy, distinctly no longer one that your are intimate with, ought to experience such as you are attempting to sabotage your guy or woman relationship with the aid of asking questions, why, that's the main ridiculous element i've got ever heard. on the different fringe of the fence, he has been abusive, or a minimum of undesirable kin with previous women persons. to no longer point out 2 toddlers that are an entire project in themselves. It appears like he's amazingly sturdy at self destruction, nevertheless he will never admit it.
2016-09-28 23:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by lininger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,,
it sucks to see that,, but i would be honest and be straight with him and question him on it,, get the girls number ,but dont call her until you have asked him,first,, and see what he says,, about it ,, and if you have been with him for a while and you dont know who this girl is or he hasnt introduced you to her, then know theres a reason for it,,see what he says youll know if hes being truthful, and if the answer if legit,, i mean why would he need to stay at another girls house for,, and dont let him switch it around and make you focus on why were you looking through my phone and put a guilt trip on you and make you forget about that situation and focus on that arguement because thats irrelvant right now, yall can discuss that someother time,, because if hes doing nothing wrong, then he wont care that you saw those messages,, ok if hes answers dont feel right or match up,, then when you can when he leaves or you leave dont hesitate, call her and dont reveal your number in case he calls her and tell hers about it, when she answeres be polite, so shell respond and not hangup if your ugly,, tell her this,,,tell who you are and that you would like to talk to her, and that your not calling to fight with her or talk crap but to find out the truth because you dont want to be lied to about the current situation, because you dont need to be wtih someone who is going to be untruthful to you, and that you would just like to her from her woman to woman,,if she could give you that much respect and answer one guestion,, and thats if shes sleeping with or seeing him,, and if she mature shell be honest, and tell her that you would appreciate her honesty because in the long run,, he is not being fair to either one of you.. hes playing with both of yall feelings,, because he should know better,, if im right if you do this shell respond to you right and youll get the truth. you may think how can you not call her and talk crap,, but from my experience,, if she knows about you and she is seeing him and sneaking around,, you being polite asking her this ,, will make her more than gladly to tell you because anyone whos been the other,, finally gets tired and gets to the point where they wish you would find out so it will come down to him having to make a decision between the two of you... i hope it works out for ya good luck
2006-08-06 08:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by babygirlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I saw that I would beat his *** and then break up with him. He cheated and he cant deny it don't believe what he says because he will do it again.
2006-08-06 08:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by livindacrazylife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about the messages if he get outrages about then let him go because its going to stress you out but if he talk to you about it in a calm melo way then let it ride for the time being but don't forget about it.
2006-08-06 09:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by yoyoluv27910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from someone who just learned the hard way, GET RID OF THE SLIME BAG!! Guys that do things like that are a waste of skin. You can do better and deserve someone who isnt going to cheat on you
2006-08-06 08:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by littleblondi572 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should talk to him before doing dumping him.A girl can tell when a guy is lying if you know he is lying to you then you should dump him
2006-08-06 08:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forward it to ur phone and then show it to him and be like what the **** is this and see what he says.. hell probly make up some bullshitt like its his cousin or something lol if it where me i would do the same thing to him and make it obvious
2006-08-06 08:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by ashleybaby147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definetly ask him about them.. does he know u look at his text messages? even if he doesnt its good u went with ur hunge and felt something wasnt right...ask away u have every right and if it were me i would break up with him cant trust him
2006-08-06 12:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepatutie0812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell all the girls to **** of cuz he has a girl
2006-08-06 08:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by andralynn147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋