My mom is crazy, I am 27 years old and she still trys to control my life.It is really effecting me and has been throughout the years.Heres an example.she tryes to force me to use gas cards to sams and if i refuse she yells so loud that I have to hang up the phone.trys to control everything what can I do
2006-08-06 08:12:56 · 19 answers · asked by numbtomotion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Quit calling her....
2006-08-06 08:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sneak up on her and with a handfull of hydra-co-dones grab her and shove them down her throat, then grab a glass of water and do a 'walking tall' impression and smash the water down her throat with a 2by4, smashing her face as well. She'll need the pills she just swallowed for facial reconstruction when she wakes up.
I'm sorry, was this a serious question?
Then you could GROW UP, LITTLE TIMMY!!!
Or leave...
2006-08-06 15:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by John Stamos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise
2006-08-06 15:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm in foster care and my mom was very abusive but in this situation I would say sit down a talk to her in person and tell her your not a little kid anymore but you'll always be her son
2006-08-06 15:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by caramel_hispanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to set some boundaries with mom. let her know that she needs to give you choices to do things your way....it's not life or death so she doesn't need to strangle hold you. tell her that she can give direction/guidance, but that she needs to tone down her voice and deliver her message in a way that you can receive it properly. when you are loud mom, i can't deal with that so i need to hang up the phone for my sanity...i don't want to but i need to. you can further set boundaries by limiting your contact with her to a couple times a week until you feel the situation has gotten better.
2006-08-06 15:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a bit old for needing mommy? Sometimes in life we have to cut ties and move on.. even with parents. You cannot make her take her meds and she simply does not care so quit trying.
Get your phone number changed and unlisted and move.
Move on with your life. She is suspose to be your mother... you are not suspose to be hers.
Alex
2006-08-06 15:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Osiris2067 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is supposed to be on medication, I would call her doctor and let the doc know that she hasn't been taking it. Also I would find out what I could do to help her.
2006-08-06 15:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug_jane22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down and have a talk with her after you kick her in the taco.
2006-08-06 15:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to the old forks home or tell the cops for hassment or u can say I TYED OF U RULING MY LIFE I AM A GROW MAN
2006-08-06 15:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to her again. try to ignore her and play indifferent as much as possible. she will come to senses. that's what i did with mine...by the way, I'm 27 too and now I'm happy. good luck!
2006-08-06 15:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ok you'll use the gas cards but only if she supplies you with hers and pays for it.
2006-08-06 15:44:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋