hello,
first of all was she in the picture before you, i mean were they all ready living togther when you met him. second does she acknowledge you when you go over? is it open and friendly is she genuwine when she says hi and talks to you,, and youll know if she is or isnt...,third,, if your bf is telling you these things, dont get mad and make a big deal,, just let him share with you about their relationship,, and listen to what he tells you,, because you will learn alot about her and be able to tell if theres more to the situation or not,, if you get mad hell shut you out and wont tell you anything and you really wont know anything and that will drive more crazy,,,fourth,, having a girl as a roomate is common for guys it sometimes work out better that way,, if you have alot of guys as friends, you know what i mean,, it is possible she is a friend and theres nothing more, i have had guy friends , and we would share alot of things like talking about our past and current relationships,, about the sex, or about guys and girls in general,, as girls would with girls,, and guys can share things about how they feel about a chick with another chick , then they could with a guy, they dont fear of looking whooped ya know,, so just go by your gut instinct and pay attention to the signs and what he tells you,, youll know if theres something going on, and trust your man if he hasnt given you a reason not too, then give him that much,, and finally,, i dont know how serious yall are but if you two have been together along time,,and she moved in recently as his roommate ask yourself this did you know about her before than , and where did he meet her, and did ask you how you would feel about it or if it bothered you., because if he did let you know and shared these things then frust him, because he is considering you and your feelings,,and i would say if he didnt care he wouldnt ask you how you felt about it,, and look at his attitude towards you when shes around does it remain the same or is he rude, or distant, or keeps it platonic until she leaves or yall leave.. i hope this helps,, good luck
2006-08-06 15:36:10
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answered by babygirlc 2
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