but how would i knojw that she really loves me from my side i love her very much......but how will i know she alos love me how much i love her?
2006-08-06 07:48:05 · 12 answers · asked by matt p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try meeting her in a public setting. You can't really be sure of anything just over the internet. People lie all the time.
2006-08-06 07:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a fool. You are in love with what your imagination has created. You are in love with what you fantasize she is like. And 6 months isn't long enough to find out if it's all just an act to draw you in. You need to actually spend time with someone to see how consistent their actions are with what they say. And if you just know without question that someone loves you, then they probably do. You won't have to ask. Don't marry a fantasy, get to know the real person. And you don't have to marry someone to prove you love them. If you want to slow down and get to know her more first, to "figure out what she likes".....I am sure she will understand. Then, go to www.drphil.com and look over the premarital checklist of things to consider before marriage. Marriage doesn't come with a manual, but we can learn things from those who are. There are things that people in love don't think about that can present problems later, so this will address those things....
Good luck!
2006-08-06 07:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two need to meet and really know how you both feel. In the past many people have met only through letters and wed. Some work and some don't. It's up to you to decide and that way if it goes wrong you can only blame your self. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-06 07:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not sure that she loves you the same that you love her, then you guys arent ready for marriage yet. either that or this is simply cold feet, but dont worry too much you will scare her, women tke marriage very seriously, and if she gave you a promise to marry you then she deffinatly loves you. but just to be sure have a convosation with her, and let her know how you feel about her, women are very open with things like thins, and her telling you how much she cares for you will really make your chilly toes, nice, and warm. i hope that this helps
2006-08-06 07:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by Gossip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she agreed to your proposal, she obviously loves u. To agree for a lifetime of marriage takes a lot of love from eachothers part and if she agreed than she really does love. Congrats pal, you r gonna get Hitched!!!!
2006-08-06 07:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by JCman2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't propose to anyone i haven't met, and got to know. Not wise.
2006-08-06 07:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the problem?she wouldn't have said yes if she didn't love you back
2006-08-06 07:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly....marriage is a big step...if she didn't love you she most likely wouldn't marry you....good luck
2006-08-06 07:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your going to just have to meet her and be friends alittle so you can tell.
2006-08-06 07:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she agreed to marry you. i think that means something.
2006-08-06 07:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by nick398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋