i just lost my best friend and i need help to say i'm sorry ??? plz plz help!!!!!
2006-08-06 07:40:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
firstly if this is your best friend,you havent lost em...upset them,made them angry,hurt them..but lost em no........
a best friend is one who knows all there is to know about you...and like you just the same......this type of friend you will not lose...so ask them if you can talk about what happened...explain why it happened...BE VERY TRUTHFULL...and ask to be forgiven
for your actions....the so called best friend WILL forgive.if not..then its not a best friend at all...AND DONT DO IT AGAIN..
2006-08-06 07:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by thomasina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you apologize, be as honest as you can and show that you fully understand how much whatever you did hurt her. Listen to her feelings, and let her tell you how she was hurt, if need be. If you are really good friends and she sees how bad you feel, you can probably patch things up.
Just saying I'm sorry isn't enough for big things. You need to show that you truly understand why it was wrong and help her believe you will never do it again because you value the relationship and know the damage it did.
It may take time to re-earn a person's trust if you have betrayed that trust. Building or re-building trust takes time. This applies in love relationships as well as friendships.
2006-08-06 14:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by mellexical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call up and say you're sorry. Say it in front of other people to make the deal even sweeter.Dont stalk her for any reason. Send a thoughtful small gift with an apology note.If you are really close and BFF, you should be able to talk to her and fix the mess. After all this person understands you a little better than others.
2006-08-06 14:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't clear what help you need.
Call her up or go to her house and say "I'm really and truly sorry for what I did and I will never do it again. You are my best friend and I don't want to lose your friendship. Is there any way I can make it up to you?"
Is there some reason you can't do this?
2006-08-06 14:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to go up to her and say,"I am so sorry,I was a rotten friend,please forgive me I don't want lose you,because you are very important to me and you are a very good friend.",then you should give her something nice like a friendship bracelet.
2006-08-06 14:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by ｡◕‿◕｡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her flowers, call her, go to her place, bring one of your inside jokes to her....just talk to her, lay everything out in how you feel, if you were best friends and it was meant to last, everything will work out. Make sure that you listen to what she has to say as well, and learn from it! All the best hun
2006-08-06 14:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell youre friend from the bottom of youre heart you are sorry.i dont know what you did but if she really is a good friend she will forgive you.it might take her a while to gain youre trust back.
2006-08-06 14:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need help to say your sorry just do it
2006-08-06 14:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Gossip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry to her or just take her to the mall and buy her a couple shirts to make up for the fight
2006-08-06 14:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by shamouslover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell her that ur sorry and why u did what u did....if u were really friends she'll come around even if its not right away
2006-08-06 14:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋