i have to share a room with my little brother (hes 8 im 14) and ive started puberty and he hasnt. ive started masterbating and having erections and ejaculating. one time he walked in on me masterbating and now he wants to know what i was doing. if i tell him i kno he will tell his friends,my parents ,sister or anybody because hes been known to do that. i dont want everyone my brother knows to know what i do and how i do it in private. also i have wet dreams occasionally and my brother assumes i wet the bed so i have break that to him to. how should tell him about masterbating and wet dreams so he'll stop pestering me (he asks in front of people ex"hey will you tell me what you were doing last night in bed" as my mother enters the room) and convey to him that he shouldn't spread this around? im not ashamed i just dont want the entire 2nd grade knowing about that from my brother. oh also switching rooms is not an option becuase there are 2 bedrooms for kids and my two sisters share one and i dont want my little sisters to know about this even more. help!
2006-08-06 07:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
The problems of raging male hormones and the pesty little brother.
A) I would not tell him that you were masturbating or the whole 2nd grade class will know. The other issue is that your whole family might find out one Christmas dinner....pass telling the pest.
You might just say that you were getting comfortable and moving around cause you were cold. That probably will satisfy his curiosity.
You need to find a more private spot to masturbate....in the shower, toilet, garage, etc. He will continue to wonder and that is why you should do it when he falls asleep or somewhere more private where you can lock the door.
B) Wet dreams- Go ahead and tell him. Talk to your parents and have them talk to him about wet dreams. 2nd grade is a little young. The other thing is don't change the sheets while he is there.
2006-08-06 07:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by MikeM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's going for the emotional manipulation, and it sounds like it's working.
The wet dreams will stop, but wear some underwear to minimize the chances of getting the sheets dirty. Just tell him, if he thinks you've wet the bed, that you just like having clean, fresh sheets to sleep on. The more you make a deal of it, the worse he will be.
When you want to masturbate during the day or evening, lock yourself in the bathroom, turn the fan on, and do it there if he's really not going to give you privacy in your room. Or wait until you know for sure he's asleep, and do it then.
You also have every right to talk to your father and tell him (not everything that's going on with your body) that you need your brother to stop pestering you. That might help.
I'm not sure if telling him the details about masturbation and wet dreams is the best thing to do right now. He's still very young. Try the above advice first.
2006-08-06 07:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude her is my advice, Masturbate somewhere else in private in the bathroom, a restroom, or even when everyone is out of the house. Dont masturbate in front of him. As for the wet dreams here is what you do, the next time you have one show him and explain to him what your body is going through and tell him a little about puberty. Buy him or show him a book on puberty. Whats he knows what is going on he will understand.
2006-08-08 16:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate in private. Like in the shower or otherwise in the bathroom if you can lock the door.
Your wet dreams should be at a minimum if you masturbate regularly.
2006-08-06 07:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting - because the last we heard from you, you had two brothers, and your younger brother was having sex with your old brother's girl friend.
Is your 8 year old brother really havin sex with your old brother's girlfriend?
If you are going to make up questions, you need to keep the facts consistent!
2006-08-06 07:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 13:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by lambdin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him the book Whats going on down there. Give it to him and let him read it. Its a book about puberty.Trust me
2006-08-06 13:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by funnyguy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it when hes not around or in the shower/bathroom
2006-08-06 07:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what one does when growing up like going to toilet to sh*t.....tell him it's not something to ask someone what they do in the toilet.
2006-08-06 11:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋