Can anyone help me with my problem.firstly let me tell you that I have been married for over 30 years and up to about 2 years ago everything was ok. But now whenever i make love to my wife I find I cant sustain my erection inside her and she has to finish me off by hand, yet I have no such problem when I visit an escort girl and pay for sex,I am able to perform to completion with no trouble at all.
Has anyone got any idea why this is and maybe suggest a solution.
2006-08-06 07:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by goldtop 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
well ,if you really want to have an intimate and hot and enduring sex life with your wife try what my hubby does it has made a HUGE DIFFERENCE for us don't masturbate, in your case don't see any other women intimately , think of her when you are feeling amorous and meet for those newly-wed noon rendezvous... meet at a beautiful hotel with a spa in the room (you'll be able to afford it now)take her for lingeree shopping sprees at Victoria's secret or somewhere spicier. Tell her all of your fantasies and see how many you can act out together, ask what her fantasies are and do the same ... but if all of this is just contrived and boring try volunteering together at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter, take a trip to a third world country together, explore new cultures, cuisines and reasons to be thankful for your lives together.... Maybe after all these years you haven't really discovered your purpose for living which reduces sex to a mere distraction and not the amazing joining of souls that it can be.
2006-08-07 00:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably know the solution to this problem already or should I say the cause at least
the erictile disfunction you are experiencing s probably that the servides you are getting from the escort girl is new and daring and she is young and virile whilst your wife is different in that sex with her is more of MARITIAL service and you arre just going through the motions while the idea of having sex is still turniongyou on the actual act is in itself not quite what you had set yourself up for. SOLUTION make sex with your wife more interesting . like drag her down an alleyway and go for it do stuff that you would normally think is crazy. but stay on the side of the law or it could become embarrasing (not as bad as george Micheal at least it is with your wife) good luck.
2006-08-06 07:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bren0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say seek for some thing that hobbies you sexually whether you're going solo for awhile.... Taking organic remedies at 23 can't be sturdy on ya... i ought to comprehend in case you have been over the age of 35 yet 23 no longer a lot... i'm 23 every time i'm getting in a droop like that I take issues into my very own palms.... possibly locate some porn or in simple terms something that'll excite you... sturdy success with what ever you do...
2016-09-28 23:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by lininger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have lost intense interest in your wife. Rather than dealing with that by talking to her, trying new things with here, you've turned to prostitutes. That's easy.
You've made a choice that has caused your problem. You need to share with your wife that you need to spice it up a little to keep your erection, before you end up sharing a disease from a prostitute, or a divorce suit.
2006-08-06 07:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your paying an escort girl? Does your wife know (open marriage type thing?) If she doesn't, and your sneaking off behind her back no wonder your not operating properly - your mind is screwed up.
2006-08-06 07:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by warden14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is you r a pig. If you have to cheat on the woman you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with than you need to divorce her so she can find a loving man to grow old with. she deserves better. what would happen if you brought HIV AIDS home to your wife? she has a right to know you are cheating on her so she can move on with her life. you cant perform correctly with her because you feel guilty. you should be ashamed of yourself. if all men would just tell their women that they are no longer interested in them and that they want to move on instead of cheating on them women would be so much better off. tell us straight up!!! just be men and be straight up!!!
2006-08-06 07:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be your getting bored with her and need something else or is your wife not wanting it
2006-08-06 10:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is u got what u deserve - your poor wife!
2006-08-06 07:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by shariwharton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wifes stuff must be worn out
2006-08-06 07:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the honeymoon period is over ?
2006-08-06 07:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by ......... ........... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋