i, a busy man, cant spend much time with my wife.She is upset about it. It is all for her!why dont she realise

Question

bob- is love and relation so fragile that one can leave one's life.

"lose your wife!!" - annie dear, do you want me to have a heart-attack?

there seems a tinge of jealousy here.

its time to get the records straight. benam is beyond love either secret or non-secret.

he has known no woman before marriage not intend to so in future.

for a hindu i wife is not just a woman - she is ardhangini - the other half.

Alas! some culture cannot appreceate or understand it.

"satya meva jayate" - truth is victorious says the veda.

there is no question of lying

Answer 1

OK,,,Well i have to voice up here!!! First you've been on here for over an hour, where's ur wife now and how come ur not with her doing what ever.... and on ur up dates it seams to me that ur hitting on Annie, and u have answered alot of "onanutmission" questions

i think u should ask Ur self if u truly love Ur wife, and if so get off this thing and go be with her


UPDATE 2 min ago... some cultures, dude where not the ones on here asking questions about there marriage, so don't even go there, and if she Ur other half treat her like it and give more time to her!!!!!!

Answer 2

Sometimes you do your best to work hard and show your loved one that you only do this so that they can be taken care of very well. I'm sure your wife knows this and if she doesn't then remind her. Even when it's a case like yours a man or woman wants quality time also. What's the use of being in any relationship if you work all the time and there is no time to spend with each other? A marriage can't survive on you being too busy all the time and there is no quality time. There has to be a balance somewhere in there, otherwise she feels forgotten and lonely. I know you are probably a good husband and you work pretty hard, but you have to sit down and figure out how you can spend more time around your busy schedule doing something nice with your wife. Even if it's in your home doing something romantic. Trust me she would be happy if you just curled up on the sofa and hugged her tight and made a romantic evening out of that. You have to make her still feel like she's there because right now she doesn't feel this way. This is a good way for things to start going wrong in your marriage if you don't get a hold on it now. Put forth the effort and come up with something, but make sure you stick to this atleast twice a month if you can by giving her a romantic and good time. You need to be consistent with this otherwise you will always find yourself in this situation with her. I wish you the best in your marriage and with your wife.

Answer 3

I am sure you see it as, *all for her*..... most men feel the way you do, and even some women..... but, have you thought about the other side of the coin at all ?? say, what if she were as busy as you are ? what if she came home late, not there for you, and said those words ? you would feel how ?????? depressed and out of place...... be honest with your feelings here !!! what most ppl do not realize is there are very simple ways to make everyone happy and feel good about the relationship..... it takes a little work, but hey, is she not worth it ?? if so, I do suggest you read on and really get your brain and heart in sinc with each other...... have date nights..... 1 or 2 nights a month..... you come home when you are supposed to and take her out, dancing, eat, movie, etc....... and NO cells or pagers..... nothing that connects you to your work, and I mean NOTHING !! no talking about work at all......... and maybe a night at home, same thing, no phone or talking about work, do the wine and soft music and concentrate souly on ya'll as a couple... ask her about her day, week, dreams, fantasies etc...... compare your dreams and stuff, focus on her and you and then the 2 of you...... all she wants or needs from you is your time, focus, attention and to know she is not wasting her heart on some one who does not appreciate that fact........ get with the program friend, before you loose your wife !!!!!!!! God bless

Answer 4

Maybe its not just the fact that you spend very little time with your wife, but the quality of the time that you do spend with her.
How do you treat her when you are around her, do you make her feel like what she does is insignifiacant, do you talk down to her, do you even talk to her at all.
There are more things to this than you realize and more aspects that you haven't looked at, how would you feel if the tables were turned, most men would whine and cry and throw fits cause they aren't getting attention the way they think they should, just like the difference when women and men get sick, men want babied and women no matter what never seem to get a break.
good luck

Answer 5

Take the time your on yahoo complaining about your wife and spend it with her! If you can't make time for her eventually she will find someone who will!

Not to be mean but you have asked over 300 questions since Feb 2006. That is really a lot of time on here, maybe you should really consider if you want to spend time with your wife or not. If you don't, don't you think you should let her go so she can find someone who does?

Answer 6

I am a Professional woman married to a Professional man. We both understand that the other is busy! We make as much time for each other as we can, always go to bed together and always eat dinner together but when I say always..only when he is home and not Deployed (he's an Army Officer). It sounds to me as if your wife hasn't got enough to do. Encourage her to start living her own life and then perhaps, when SHE is busy, she'll stop fretting and whining.

Answer 7

Stop thinking that money makes a life. Two people make a life. The first thing you need to do is spend a little time with her and let her know that you love her and you will be there for her, but you do want to give her all the things she wants and to make comfy place to live and love with her and no one else

Answer 8

I understand,my husband works all the time too.I get upset but he is a very successful man,Everything he does benifits me and his children in full.Who am I to take that from him.he has worked very hard to get where he's at,just like you have.Here are some things that work for us,call her just to tell her you love her,the little bit of time that you do get to spend with her,make her your focal point and let her know how much she's loved by you.Assure her that your doing this as much for her as you are for yourself.If she really loves you she'll understand.I've been living like this now for five years and have been completely faithful to my husband.Instead of complaining about not having enough time,look forward to the time you do have and be happy
good luck

Answer 9

my husband is a very busy man too, he has his own company and all that, that entitles, I know that he is doing it for me and for our children, however, i personally need love,affection,time and attention. He will get so raped up in his business that he will forget we had dinner plans or he'll forget doctors appointments, at times it is too much................... I'm sure that your wife understands that you are doing it for the two of you. Try to find more time for her. Do little things like call her during your day just to say I love you.

Answer 10

when dating my father taught me that a man who is truly interested in me will make time for me no matter how busy he is if I'm important to him. if you're not that important his actions will show it. REMEMBER, how you got the woman is how you keep her. if you can't be there, send flowers, write love notes leave them in the fridge, on her dresser on her pillow. give her sexy IOU coupons, ie.. IOU one romantic evening, one full body massage, or an evening of wonderful nosebleed sex (just an expression). call her when you get free moments and talk sexy to her, or send her sexy text messages. she just wants to fill like you've not lost interest in her. if you're doing these little things she'll feel you have less time to cheat, leaving her feeling A LOT LESS INSECURE because she knows that you're constasntly thinking of HER! and you'll be less stressed trying to juggle marriage and your seemingly demanding job. it will also make coming home more fun. less arguing and lots more kisses! another thing that's fun... give her homework assignments, like role playing. tell her you want to see her in a skimpy maids uniform or just a bikini bottom laying spread eagle when you get home. the more detailed the better. she'll have something to keep her busy while you work and you'll both have something wonderful to look forward to when you finally get there. MARRIAGE IS WORK! BUT REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN WORKING AT IT!! sorry i'm not yelling just forgot to take the caps lock off.