why do people always have a bad experience the first time they do it... im 17 and I never had sex yet... but why is the first time bad??
2006-08-06 07:03:31 · 22 answers · asked by I need Answers 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Because there is a lot of build up and expectations, there are worries of your parents and others finding out, and fear of pregnancies. This causes females to be tense and not get wet enough so it hurts when he enters. The guy is worried about his performance and tends to come very fast, making it so the girl gets little pleasure and he is done before he can enjoy it.
By the way-- not all first experiences are bad. Mine was wonderful. Just make sure you don't have to worry about the problems above and it will be great.
2006-08-06 07:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by emp04 5 · 17⤊ 4⤋
I had a great experience the first time. Most people have bad experiences because they do the first thing to come along. You really have to make sure that they are the right person and the trust that builds eliminates the fear.
2006-08-06 15:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know the first is always bad maybe the people you asked were lying so they could always make fun of you for being a virgin because you are so afraid that the first time you do it won't be as much fun as you hoped and if this really is the reason then you should hope for much less then you think you actually get.
2006-08-06 16:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time isn't bad its just not wonderful due to the fact that the first time the penis goes in to the vagina it hurts a little more for the girl than the guy but its just never been there and causes pressure causing a little pain.
2006-08-06 14:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually...it's because of the lack of experience and fear of failure. Some girls find it awkward and if it's their first time, it will be a little painful. For guy's, the sheer anticipation gets them off before they start. It's just natural.
2006-08-06 14:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by citywolf57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually its bad because the guy pressured them to do it. or he took her to a secluded place and she just went along with it because she was scared and didnt want to get hurt. I have never heard say they got married first and had a bad experience on their honemoon.
2006-08-06 15:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say the frist time is bad because you are either both not experence in it or one of you are experence it in it you both become nerves and make a big fuss out of when you are ready just relax and be calm yeah it could be a big step but it happens when it happenes so just don't rush it
2006-08-06 14:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c it hurts for the woman and the guy usually gets off too quickly.
2006-08-06 14:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time was wonderful. But then again I waited for my wedding night. If you were smart you would too!
2006-08-06 14:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time is not bad, infact since it is the first time it feels really good.
2006-08-06 15:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Chaos_angel0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋