...in any situation, have you ever realized that you just couldnt bring yourself to get those words out of your mouth?
2006-08-06 06:59:55 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sometimes, but i appologize even if i don't mean it...
2006-08-06 07:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I say I am sorry just to make amends. Yet, I know deep down inside I was not sorry. There have been times when I refused to apologize because I stood firm in my convictions at the time. It cost me a friend. However, I realized it was over a difference of opinions and we are all entitled to our own feelings and opinions. So in the end a true friend would have respected me, even if I did not agree with her.
As for myself...I do not want someone to apologize if they do not mean it! I also do not want someone to feel forced to apologize.
2006-08-06 07:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. I like to set a good example so hopefully others around me can apologize to me or whoever else in the future. My mother-in-law has never said she was sorry for anything. When my father-in -law died within a year she had a boyfriend and moved 12 hours away. We didn't hear from her for a couple of years. We're actually going to see her tonight for her birthday. She's moved back in town recently. You never know if you can count on her for anything. 1/2 the time she'll call on your birthday, you never know. Even with her own grandkids. I think that's terrible. Anyway, she has never said she was sorry for anything. Even when she was raising my husband, who is nothing like her.
"I'm sorry" if I went on too much. I think it's very important to apologize. Otherwise it creates stress and tension.
2006-08-06 07:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I find it very difficult at times. But, if I'm not the one who should be saying "I'm sorry", then I don't. I've learned that it's okay to not say words you don't mean. Like, if someone tells me that they're sorry and I'm still not okay with it, I don't say "Oh, it's okay." That became a habit, but it's one that I've broken and I'm glad I did. My words should have meaning behind them when they come out of my mouth.
2006-08-06 07:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I'm finding that if I am in the wrong and/or hurt someone, it is so much easier on myself in the long run (and short run) to say it. I've realized the people I most admire in life are those that have no problem admitting when they are wrong and/or have no problems apologizing when the occasion arises.
2006-08-06 07:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by AMac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if i dont think that i should be the one saying sorry, but if i know right away that i shouldnt of doen that and i need to tell someone im sorry, its still hard but not to hard cause i do want them to know im sorry. But alot of time i really dont think i should be saying sorry, becuase i still feel i did whatever it is that i did for a reason.
2006-08-06 07:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't mind saying sorry even if not wrong. it relieves lot of tension.i feel it is a very good quality of mine because the response is really great. & i have lot of friends in my work place because of this.when ever i know i am correct & the other person starts an arguement i just say " i thought i was correct. i am sorry if i i am wrong "& give a smile. there ends the arguement. & the tension.
2006-08-06 07:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to something that is big ...most of the time it comes right out, other times I get defensive and I have to force it out. Otherwise, I say "I'm sorry" way too frequently, for little things, things that aren't under my control.
2006-08-06 07:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by running2adream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not getting the words out of my mouth, but the later consequeces for this action.
Will i always be reminded when I made this hideous mistake at every opportunity
2006-08-06 07:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll sometimes when i dont want to tell my friends that i lied or didnt know i try changing the subject by saying ur lying and eventually i get them to say im sorry ...lol
2006-08-06 07:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate saying I'm sorry especially to someone that I know would never apoligise to me if they hurt me. So when I do say sorry to someone like that I feel loads more mature than that person.
2006-08-06 07:05:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋