Is 14 too young for breast implants?

Question

The only bra made in my size is for cancer patients, and I don't know what to do. My mom won't let me get pads for my bra to make them look more proportionate for my body. I really feel like a freak because there are 100 pound girls at my school with bigger breasts than me.

I'm also kind of fat and I think that having no breasts makes me look weird.

Answer 1

Breasts are WAY over rated. When I was in my teens I went out with girls who were SMART enough to not worry about their looks, took care of themselves so their looks were healthy and knew how to enjoy live without comparing themselves to other people.

Be who YOU are. Let me ask you a question - do you want to be with people who are more interested in your looks or who you are? Choose.

And you are not a freak - you are 14. My wife was an A cup even after having three kids! Does that matter to me? Nope. I didn' marry a pair of t!ts. I married a woman I love.

Answer 2

Will your husband notice? If he doesn't what would have been the point of it all? You're daughter if 14, she is way to young to be having plastic surgery! And any doctor that is willing to work on someone so young obviously doesn't have any morals! She could very easily hit 15 and have a major growth spurt! She is STILL growing, some just dont develop as early as other, your daughter should at least wait until she is 18 and you as a mother should be pushing towards that too, I understand the troubles she would be having but having surgery to fix all her insecurities could only be the bearer of more teasing with everyone knowing what she had done. Killing herself is most likely just a threat to get what she wants although I do suggest more cousilling, no, that isn't going to help her physical appearance but it can help in changing the way she sees herself, she could learn that being the way she is has a lot of positives and she could become more comfortable in her own skin, every teenager goes through a stage where they hate something or often everything about their body.

Answer 3

Everyone develops differently, talk to your mother very seriously and discuss the desire to buy not pads for your bra but maybe a padded bra. You are definitely too young for breast implants, I don't think you could even find a doctor to do the surgery and if you did he would be a quack! If you just cant get your mom to listen maybe talk to an aunt or friend of your mothers that would help you approach your mom and join in the discussion. But you will develop in time, don't be in too much of a rush it will all happen. Good luck.

Answer 4

I'm with Richard, small is wild, crazy sexy. And yes, 14 it far too young to invade your body, cut up your tissue, and implant a foreign object that is almost as likely to cause problems as cure them...

When you go get old enough, say 25 - 30, have a good look at what can happen when "vanity" surgery is performed on an, otherwise, healthy body. Some are just heart wrenching. Thankfully, neither, my wife or I have entertained the thought of having our bodies cut up hoping it would make us look better.

BTW, I am far too old for you but I would still bet money you are a knockout.

Answer 5

To be honest, yes, 14 is too young. There are a lot of people who go through the same thing. You are not a freak. We all mature differently. Overtime you will see. You aren't finished maturing yet. Here is something to make you laugh.....I remember in school when we had to run track the girls with the big boobs had to cross their arms to keep their boobs from busting them in their eyes and jumping all over the place. HA HA HA!!!! I hope you feel better. And remember you are beautifully and wonderfully made. Give it some time. Hopefully your mom will understand how you feel and buy you some better padded bras in the meantime.

Answer 6

Absolutely too young! Your physical development is nowhere near complete yet.

Wait awhile. If, when you're 18 or older, and your breasts still haven't filled out to your satisfaction and you're still uncomfortable/embarrassed, then you can consider it.

It's too early right now; be patient. For now, if you explain how uncomfortable you are, maybe your mom will let you pad your bra. Are you certain you haven't been able to find a bra that is a push-up or one that can make your chest appear bigger than it is? There are many bras out there for tinier figures, just as there are many to minimize fuller chests.

Good luck...and try to concentrate on other aspects of your life to take your mind off of this.

Answer 7

A padded bra would be a good solution. Is there some other adult that you can talk to? Maybe you can go to the school counselor or a teacher that you really like or maybe one of your friend's moms... someone nice that you trust. Ask them if you talk to them about a problem. They could talk to your mom on your behalf and let her know that there's nothing wrong with a padded bra to help you fit in and feel more normal. Your mom is really not being fair about that. Please try to get another adult to help you out.

Answer 8

It's definately too young. You're body is still growing and maturing. 14 is an awkward age, but everything will catch up in the next 6 months to a year. Don't try to rush it. There are enought pressures out there, don't add them to yourself. And padded braws are definately not a good idea for you either.


Kris
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Answer 9

Are you menstruating yet? If not you haven't got the same estrogen as them. Wait they will grow when you menstruate. If you dont start see a doctor. If you are menstruating then you may be more developed in other areas and your breasts are lagging behind a bit. Either wasy your young and still growing. 14 is too young to contimplate surgery. Wait till your an adult and done growing for that.

Answer 10

Yep 14 is unfortunately way too young. Your body is still growing and could have a 'spurt' soon. Most plastic surgeons would not operate on you because of that. Wait at least 4 years. You'll fill out soon enough and then you'll be wondering why you were worrying!