Well my friend knows that I used to be in love with him he used to help me and talk to me about it and stuff.. and now I'm over him. But I was at the airport and seeing him off and I couldn't help myself and I ran into his arms and flung my arms around his neck.. I've never done that before to him.. but I think he tried to kiss me becaues I felt something brush from the corner of my mouth to my cheek and I was confused because he said good bye to me squeezed me and then we let go but I dont know what to do! I dont like him and I dont even know if he was TRYING to kiss me or not! HELP! Oh yeah and he knows I'm over him. Please no stupid answers.
2006-08-06 06:42:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is to "Sweet" thank you for saying that my answer was mature.. I appreciate that. I don't feel comfortable giving my age over the net, you know? Theres so many creeps here! But you can IM me.. at federer_lover@yahoo.ca .. also There IS an age gap between him and I.. four years.. but in all honesty we don't see it, we treat eachother like equals... I know its probably bad that he doesn't see it.. but he doesnt.
2006-08-06 07:24:56 · update #1
Hi. First of all, I want you to know that I am a married woman and I am sure I am much older than you, so I have some credibility (believability) when it comes to giving you some advice.
I appreciated you answering one of my questions, which you answered with great maturity, so I have become curious to help you. I don't think you realize this, but on the subconscious level from what I see in your writing, I think you are still in love with him. You are denying it on the conscious level because perhaps you feel it will never work out - you think he doesn't like you. But he really does. What happened to you when you said "goodbye" was completely intentional on his part. On some level, he really enjoys the fact that you have expressed an interest in him, so he is playing that up. He could also be exploring his OWN feelings with regards to you. You must let this go, and not do anything about it. If it was meant to be, it will be. You have already told him how you feel about him. Even though you have told him that you are "over" him, he KNOWS that on some level you are still very attracted to him. If you don't mind I would like to know your age, and his age.
2006-08-06 07:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend wants to have sex with you. He does this for two reasons. He has a penis. He's Heterosexual. It's not a stupid answer, it's why he kissed you and likely the motivation behind a billion things he'd done since he first met you. Likely it's the only reson he's still spending time around you. He's not confused at all about what happened just maybe as to why you did it when you did. He knows within some certainty that you're attracted to him, probably knows it better than you do.
Before you deal with your friend you need to get your head straight about why you had a big affectionate farewell for him. Are you afraid you're loosing your connection with him? Are you getting emotionally attached again? Are you just horny? Make sure you've got a handle on why you're behaving like you are before you deal with him because he's curious about what's going on with you too.
2006-08-06 07:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he going away to move and live someplsce else? or was it just a vacation?
if is was for good, then it could have been a kiss for good bye
if it is a vacation, it also could have been a kiss, but just like a friendship thin, and good luck with the flight and hope you will be safe type of thing.
whatever happens, goodbyes or so longs can be emotional so maybe it was a combination of things
2006-08-06 06:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok pay attention here i'm a tomboy and it is definitely genuine that maximum females have extra guy friends reason ladies such as you r too plenty drama ! No offense yet SERRROUSLY YOUR in basic terms CAUSSING BS
2016-11-04 00:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by bulman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me it dont sound like yur over him u still have a thing for him i think.So if u still have a thing for him call him up and talk to him about it.If u dont have a thing for him just forget about it and dont ever worry about him.But i know u have something for him because u would not have mentioned if u dident so just call him up and talk to him tell him how u fell and get together it sounuds like he likes u to.
2006-08-06 06:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, sweetie, "no stupid answers"?.....this is a very stupid question!!! You need to get over yourself and not give this one more second of throught!!! Leave the poor kid alone.....he is probably glad that he is rid of you! Practice some more mature behavior!
2006-08-06 06:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl to,but never been in that situation,all i can tell u is aparently u love him and didnt want him to go,and ur not over him,if he comes back or calls or writes then hes not over u.srry if this is not the best advice ive never been in those guy situations.
2006-08-06 06:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by woudstok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak with him about this matter,don't go directly on him.and open the whole matter.speak speak and speak.that's the only way to get your answer.
2006-08-06 06:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by alltimeforyou2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he cares about you and realized you were sad to see him leave, but he did leave. I'd say he was being realistic and you should be too.
2006-08-06 06:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow- thats really confusing
well, since you could talk to him about it before, ask him what's going on now
2006-08-06 06:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by spottedzebra13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋