I have experienced complete shame and ruin. With such experience, should I live or should I commit suiside?
2006-08-06 06:38:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you should live!
2006-08-06 06:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by i hate stuff, stuff really sucks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. rebuild yourself. I am not sure what makes you think your life is ruined but I assure you You can get back on the right track. Start changing negative behavior with positive stuff.
Eat healthy, live healthy, find new things to do.
Take a class on Computers, learn digital photography, get involved in 5k walks for Charity.
disassociate yourself from the negative in your life, whether it is people or situations.
Start today, make a realistic plan.
for every negative aspect of your life, replace it with something positive.
banish the suicidal thoughts. There is a lot to live for.
2006-08-06 13:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by wilsonsdad2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,
God has given u such a nice life.U r in the hands of God.God is the only person to take our soul b'cause he only gave us .so pls don't do the samething which most of them does. God will give u full strength to live ,me to pray for u .If u lost ur life u cannot gain it.
2006-08-06 14:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by jency 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,You should live and not die.Some experience shame and ruin.Let the past be past,and a bad dream.Most of us make
mistakes.But we can learn lessons from mistakes.Cheer up
Jesus loves you.His love never changes.Human love may change.Just kneel &Pray.Pour your heart to him.God is a loving father.He will forgive you.But don't repeat that experience.May the God of love and peace be with you.
2006-08-06 14:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mummy is not at home 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather think your life is a gift. If you terminate it, its like throwing others gift. Its gods gift.
Everyone faces complete shame and ruin. Everyones life is like that. You dont have any right to end your life. Its unlawful and most importantly illogical. You have to live to prove everything wrong. Come on, cheerup!
2006-08-06 13:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by vimalpk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dying would be running away, what would it achieve? Pain for your family and friends and all the people you love and who love you. What would living achieve? Sorting out your problems, making a fresh start and being happy. Weigh up the options, then it will be easy to decide.
2006-08-06 13:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by bobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to elaborate on what exactly was the shame and ruin before I could answer that question.
2006-08-06 13:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by FrozenCloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you live,just deal with it there is no such reason to kill yourself at all
2006-08-06 13:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by ComedySweet is the Name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIVE because this to shall pass and this same pain and frustration you feel now will be gone in the future If you allow yourself to live and forgive yourself ..... God can and will forgive you and it is HE that matters not who or what others think.
2006-08-06 14:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by borrowedtime_one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you commit suicide you'll experience for worse things than "shame". Be a man. Suck it up.
2006-08-06 13:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely live. They say you have to hit the bottom before you can climb back out again. I guess you did that, so it's time to move up and out.
2006-08-06 17:42:31 · answer #11 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋