I'm going to a party in a little while and I'm afraid that when I get there I won't be talking to anyone because I don't know like half the people who are going, and I'm really shy. How can I just not worry and talk to people, and enjoy it?
2006-08-06 06:37:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just be yourself and ask lots of questions.
2006-08-06 06:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just making eye contact and nodding your head "hello" can break the ice for some people. If there are people there that you do know, try hanging around them. I am sure they will introduce you to people that you don't know. Use this party as an opportunity to get to know new people and step out of your comfort zone. It isn't easy at first, but as time goes on, it does get easier! Good luck and have a blast!
2006-08-06 06:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to start, I think, is to go up to someone who's standing alone (not in a group), say hi, introduce yourself, and chat about the party or something like that. After sometime you can talk about each other, where you/they are from, your/their current occupation (or major if you are a student), and so on.
2006-08-06 06:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab a drink, enjoy the crowd and people watch! Sometimes being an observer is more fun...you can also talk to the other shy people sitting back and watching it all! Have a blast!
2006-08-06 06:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just dont think about it. go up to someone else or a smaller group of people and just introduce yourself. it also maybe easier if you go with a friend who knows more of the people and they can introduce you. The key is confidence though.
2006-08-06 06:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by cutie pie! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just start talking to someone any one . you never know they might be shy because they don't know you either and was waiting on you to break the ice. don't be intimanated by people you don't know just be friendly and confident that you can make new friends
2006-08-06 06:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by sexytabbi85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well introduce yourself and say im a friend of so and so. it will be awkward at first but at a party everything loosens up after some time.
2006-08-06 06:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by kandlight1182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a drink or two. That will ease you up. Introduce yourself and be a good listener at first. Soon you will get the hang of talking to people.
2006-08-06 06:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Walk up and introduce yourself. Meeting new people can be great. Have fun!!!!!
2006-08-06 06:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like hey how are you what's you name I'm (you name) and I go to (your school's name) and wait for there reply
2006-08-06 06:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋