I feel like my and my babies(his) life are threatened/indanger by my boyfriend.
I don't know if I should go around telling everyone if I dissapear someday to look to him, but I don't want to raise any eyebrows, but I don't want it to happen with no one knowing whats really going on, I have no one to talk to.
I love him, but he's evil.
I think he walks the left hand path if you know what i mean.
2006-08-06 06:34:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please describe why you think your life is in danger? When you mention such a serious thing as life danger, you should provide futher info into detail. Why do you think he's evil? Why do you think he walks the left path? You should share this info with someone close to you, like your mom for example, she might be able to bring some help to you or shed some advise.
2006-08-07 21:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by 234234234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really believe this, trust your instincts and experience. Take your children and just the clothes on your backs and RUN to the nearest shelter. Your lives will not be ideal for some time, but they are already in turmoil and that step will move you toward making life better. Professionals at the Salvation Army or other agencies will help you with shelter, child care, job searches, counseling and more. DO IT TODAY.
2006-08-06 13:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you just posted I think you already know what to do. Don't walk away from this at all. RUN! Are they his babies? BUT if you feel/believe this then there is a reason for it. SO, I will go out on the limb and say that there is some abuse going on for you to say this. If this is the case then leave him immediately. Don't screw around with this. Even if YOU think YOU can handle this, don't even THINK of putting the babies at risk. I again will say LEAVE him. But if you want to talk via e-mail my address is on my 360. Good Luck either way.
2006-08-06 13:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get proof is small ways, but be very careful.... use a small recorder and take casual pics of the kids... get a note book and write down dates, times, who said what , where and when..... be very specific in what you write down....... keep it hidden from him of course..... and then write a letter to a friend, just stating that in an emergency, such as a wreck or death, you have papers and a sorta will hidden in such and such place..... and start to stash a little money away every pay day..... an amount you can vouch for if ask..... such as 40 dollars you can say went to buy food and such....... start a savings account at your bank with only your name..... keep all this stuff together and in safe hidden place..... then when you have had enough of this man, you will have a fall back plan and money... make sure you take all this info with you and keep it safe for future reference if you decide to divorce..... the more you have down, written out in exact words and timing the better off you will be..... you will be believed and the judge will see you have taken the time and effort to document each questionable event........... God bless
2006-08-06 13:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first responsibility is to that baby and yourself. You need to set him up with good examples on how to treat women but especially you. Is there a women's shelter in your area that if you need them will let you and your child stay there. I know our shelters here are short term but they do help women get situated in safe houses.
Secondly lay charges if he abuses and don't buy the old tired line ' oh baby I was drunk, jealous etc'. A man who truly loves a woman doesn't threaten or abuse her.
If you belong to a church or are at a school go to your minister or counsellor and they will provide you the help that is available. Do it now before something awful happens. Get away from that relationship. You're worth it and so is your child , don't buy his lies. Lizzytish
2006-08-06 13:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy-tish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already on the left hand path, you leave him as fast as possible!!!When it comes to your baby, the top priority should be given to it and before anything happens, leave and stay with someone you can find solace.
I am surprised at your attitude of loving the devil knowing fully well that he is a true devil!!!be an angel to your kid!!!
2006-08-06 13:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your and your baby's life is in danger you have to get out. If you don't have the means to do so on your own you can get help from family members or women's abuse shelters. If you think you are in danger then you must have reason to feel so. Please get out while you can, you may not get a second chance.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-06 13:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly feel as though you and your baby's lives are in danger, you should go stay with your family for a while. Why would stay with someone that you were afraid of?
2006-08-06 13:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find help now, It will only fester if you let it. Your children deserve to be in a loving invironment so that they don't pick up on the same traits. I will pray for you right now.
2006-08-06 13:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Gemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave the place where you live.go far from him.and don't let him know about you if you want to live a happy life.search a job for you and work earn money.and make your babies life heaven.
2006-08-06 13:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by alltimeforyou2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋