I have a friend that we do not invite over to birthday parties and I think we have a good reason. She always ends up crying at every party...even her own. The group of friends I hang out with including me thinks that she is kind of a crybaby. When she gets mad or sad we all want to leave. I give her no sympathy. I don't think she needs it. One day when I was over at her house she thought I called her a baby she misheard, I did not call her anything. She cried. I wanted to leave. I argued that she misheard, she kept thinking I mearly called he a baby. (which I think is pityfull to cry about.) Also one day I said I thought it was time for me to go home and she said "Fine leave then." She was crying the whole time we picked up the mess we made downstairs. We said nothing to each other. I really wanted to leave at the point. She is fun when she is not mad or sad. Is she still a best friend?
2006-08-06 06:34:07 · 4 answers · asked by leah_ei 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people are more emotional than others, you know? If your friend has good qualities that a best friend should have and you enjoy her then keep being friends with her.
If you feel strongly about not liking her cry so much, then you have reason to question your friendship with her. Talk to her when she cries and explain to her that she has no reason to cry and tell her to chill.
If she doesn't understand and you've done all you can, then find a new best friend.
2006-08-06 06:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to her and ask her why she is so emotional and let her know that it makes you uncomfortable when she acts like that a best friend is someone who is with you through thick and thin and always has time for you and will always listens to your problems a best friend wont treat you like dirt or talk about you behind your back// just talk to her and let her know you feel and try not to sound mean and make sure you tell her you are not trying to hurt her feelings good luck
2006-08-06 13:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to talk to a professional shrink, and yes she still can be a Friend, just because she has a lot of emotion doesn't mean you cant be Friends with her, she need help
2006-08-06 13:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by truthfinder1960 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if she crys every time when someone says something and when u say something she is trying to get attention
2006-08-06 13:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by ann c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋