How do I get out of a painful marraige?

Question

My wife creates scenes and am scared of divorce because she threatens me that she will commit suicde and blame me. She verbally and sometimes physically abuses me and am very dpressed but can't do anything as the legal and social system supports women

Answer 1

have her emitted into a psych hospital, sounds like she needs some help, I'm serious I'm not trying to be mean,get her some help and good luck, oh and divorce her

Answer 2

The first thing you need to do is convince your wife to see a doctor. She could have depression, too. Anyone who threatens suicide needs to be under a doctor's care.

From what you are saying, I think the wife is upset with the marriage and doesn't know how to deal with it. She needs counseling for her behavior and how to deal with the source of her depression. You need counseling about your marriage and how to handle things with the wife.

This is a sad situation, but not one that counselors haven't dealt with before. You both are showing signs of depression which probably came from the stress of a failing marriage. You both need to get help, and you wife sounds like she needs medication to help her deal with stress and life. Good Luck

Answer 3

well first thing you ask yourself is, do you love your wife? when you walked down the aisle you said for better and for worse. this is what god was talking about when he said for worse. I would consider couples therapy. Find out why she makes these scenes. why she gets violant. why she threatens suicide. she might have an underlying issue that needs to come out b4 its too late. so be her husband and support her and tell her you love her and want to help her with whatever is damaging her on the inside.

Answer 4

Just sit with her,tell her what do you like do as she want because you want a safe side,act as she want,give her more time.and you can see some changes in your life,don't frustrate,don't feel guilty of what you do ,make her happy and automatically be the happiest person.try this.you will definitely get a success.

Answer 5

had that happen to me but wasnt married to him, i stood up for myself and kicked that persons a*s out! dude let me tell you, my mother is going through the same thing her b/f is controlling though and because of him my mother doesnt talk to me anymore because he doesnt like me.... and he threatens to commit suicide.... but if your not happy, remember what they do to their self its not your fault... get her some help and then divorce her...you dont deserve that.... you are not responsible for anyones actions but yours...so be a man and stand up to your own responsibilites....

Answer 6

Rat poison !!!