my boyfriend and i tried to have sex a few days ago and either he's too big or i'm too small, but his penis won;t fit inside my vagina...he tried suggesting that i "loosen up", but that hasnt been working....can anyone help???
2006-08-06 06:19:06 · 17 answers · asked by PXE 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if the problem is that you are tense then you could try putting a blind fold on and do 4 play and then have sex... lube works too. different positions open you up a little better... I have the same problem.. I have that problem every time I have sex with my husband. my problem like you is that I am to small good luck, email me if you need to talk about it. don't use KY because that originally wasn't even for sex. it was originally made to help with baby's when they take there temperature... up the bum
2006-08-06 06:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Are you a virgin? Or very inexperienced? Like maybe he's one of your first lovers? Chances are, you ARE a bit tight and the only things that will "loosen" you up are him being inside you and having a baby. I wouldn't reccomend the latter. ;-) Seriously, the other poster is right...get some lube, honey. Astroglide is the best I've used so far, feels a lot more like your real lubrication and doesn't get tacky the way KY does. It could be you're just nervous and not "excited" enough (very normal if your new to each other) and therefore just not making your own lubrication. I also tend to get very dry around that time of the month.
2006-08-06 13:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two play with a bit of lube that may help, as he can put the lube on you and you do the same with him. It's a bit of play for both and really can help. Also, a dildo can help as well if you both play with it before he goes in. He'll like teasing you with it and well, you'll enjoy it too.
2006-08-06 13:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be multiple problems,
first he must not be putting it in vagina, might be going to urethra,
second, you must be having intercourse without sufficient foreplay, it is necessary for proper lubrication.
still if you have problem than apply k-y jelly in vagina just before having intercourse
2006-08-06 13:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by drnemish_gandhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KY Personal Lubricant
2006-08-06 13:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by ncombs1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
auction him off. lol just kidding you have to make sure that you are lubricated. If you are a virgin your in for a rough ride. But it will get better in time
2006-08-06 13:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by shiningstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a half gallon of vodka, get good and toasted, make out with him then let him cram it in ya, then when you wake up the next morning it will all be over with and then you will be loosened up.
2006-08-06 17:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
keep trying...sooner or later it will go in....just take your time....relax ...be happy you are that tight some women out there are so lose the guy falls in......or ...you should be happy he is that big.....seams to me you like him being big, or you would not be asking for help......KEEP ON TRYING, DON'T GIVE UP
2006-08-06 13:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by mark22059 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lube! You can get it at a drug store. Or you can get fancy flavored ones at a 'adult shop'.
2006-08-06 13:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Have_ass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for the next choice if u need sex badly
2006-08-06 13:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by lanks20032003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋