Why do women think they should be waited on hand and foot?

Question

I work my a$$ off doing things for her but it seems the more I do the more she has for me to do.

Answer 1

sorry but you question should read..."Why does MY woman..."
because NO ONE waits on me....my husband likes to do things for me...but I have 3 kids, and tons of pets, and my hubby to take care of...i usually don't do anything for myself, my hubby MAKES me do things for myself...i put them first.. i hate going out and buying a new pair of pants or a new tube of make-up..because i know that one of the kids course use more socks...or my hubby might need something.

sounds to me like your woman is a spoiled rotten brat.
why don't you just tell her how you feel. of course if she is a brat she will throw a temper tantrum.
id say..DON'T do anything for her unless she deserves it! otherwise you've only got yourself to blame!

Answer 2

She sounds like a loser, (if what you say is true).

I prefer to work, and earn my own money. Some women and MEN think the world owes them something.

Some women (and a few men) think staying home and playing housewife or house husband is the same as earning money. It's not. If you want to be employed by your working spouse it's your choice, so stop B*$@hing and either make your own money, or accept the position in life you chose.

I say cut her off. Find some better

Answer 3

i know many women who feel the same way about men. i think it depends on the person who it is, not jus tthe gender. u need to communicate w/ ur girl what u expect from urself in the relationship, what u expect from her, and how u can compromise on situations. instead of getting upset, or blaming her for things, tell her straight out that u feel worn out, that u are doing allthese things and don't feel appreciated. u have to make sure, however, that u appreciate and validate HER roles , work, and opinions as well. when two people don't work together to make things work, to communicate, and help each other understand the other, eventually there will be resentment and anger. ur partner should be the ONLY one who truly loves, supports, and understands u, against the world of people who don't care...just as u would do for her. communicate w/ her, and if she doesn't listen to or validate ur feelings, u have to set boundaries and look for a woman who will work just as hard tp satisfy ur needs, just as u do for her. good luck.

Answer 4

My kind of woman. Keep the man running. You should be the one working your a$$ off for her. She is the love of your life. Your the one that proposed into this agreement. You should be feeding her grapes while she watches Oprah. Giving her foot rubs when she comes back from a hard days shopping. When she says she's hot, you should be there holding one of those big leaves cooling her off. After all, she is your queen.

Answer 5

not all women are like that some men are like that also. But I can say I am not like that. I am used to doing all kind of work to help out my mom and dad. and yes they do ALOT too. It's not like I work and they don't it's just hard becasue there are 10 of us in the house 7 kids 2 parents 1 grandad. We all pitch in.

Answer 6

Not all women are like that. Maybe you need to find another woman or at least talk to her about it. Many men expect the same thing, it just depends on the person.

Answer 7

Women think they should be waited on hand and foot? Whoa! I thought that was MEN. You shouldn't complain if you love her...

Answer 8

stop doing them then and maybe she will help out after she gets tired of looking at her things all over the place. i know this will porbably bug ya, but it does work, it just takes time. most women think this way cause they know they can do it and get away with it.

Answer 9

It's not ALL women that do that, you're a little confused here. In MY relationship my MAN expects me to CLEAN for him, COOK for him, TAKE CARE OF THE BABY by MYSELF! He won't even wash bottles. So it's MEN that do that too!

Answer 10

Because you insist on us waiting on everyone else hand and foot.