I dont know why, but sometimes, I feel i cant tell my best friend my deepest secrets.. I never told her when i had my first kiss or that now I have a boyfriend, after a horrible break up.. What do I do? Why must I feel so bad if I tell her? What am I going to do, please I need urgent help! And also.. When Im on MSN with her sometimes i get scared to spk to her cos i hate it wen shes in a bad mood you knw but i dunno why i feel so scared to tell her hi and tell her things.. I dont know what this is.. Please help!
2006-08-06 06:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you don't really need to tell her.You can just keep it your secret.It's not like your boyfriend is going to love you more if you tell her.And I don't think she's gonna die if she doesn't know.But if you feel like you wanna tell her then take this into mind.If she has a boyfriend then you should tell her.If she doesn't have a boyfriend and is desperate for one don't tell her!She'll feel really bad about herself.But if she likes your boyfriend then don't tell her unless things get out of hand.Well I think you should talk to her on the Internet cause if she's mad then she can't get you from your computer!And if she starts typing like crazy and you don't like it then turn off your computer!But when talking to her in real life and you feel like she's in a bad mood then I would advise you not to.Cause you might just be the spark that makes her explode!Well I hope I helped!
2006-08-06 06:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by lovewhatiloveandwhoilove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she too is afraid to share her deepest thoughts with you.if you are best friends with someone it is often easy to take each other for granted.a as you chose her to be you best friend there must have been some rapport or feeling of trust .as your friend she would obviously want you to be Happy as you would her.if she is moody be honest,that's part of being a good friend.if she was ther for you during your breakup,convince her that this is different and that you are happy,if she is your true friend she will understand if not maybe its time to move on.
2006-08-06 13:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by bubblesl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe that is ur best-friend an if she was so good of a friend then u should not feel that way u should be able to tell her things that she is suppose to keep.
2006-08-06 13:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by ~KaL!z PR!NCE$$~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u trust her u should never be scared to tell ur friend anythin (if she's your best friend) any way she should be happy for you so don't feel bad about tellin her just tell her good luck
2006-08-06 13:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by tashy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are best friends not matter how sucky one of you are doing when the other is doing great that should be able to say so that is what a best friend is made for
2006-08-06 13:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by jennybeninni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it aint her boyfriend you shold just tell her. dont be afraid because if you cant tell her you have a boy friend is she truely your bestfriend
2006-08-06 13:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by nclorenz1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. If she's truly your best friend it really should not matter.
2006-08-06 13:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you have to blabbbbbb everything you know???
2006-08-06 13:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say hi i have a boyfriend.
2006-08-06 13:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her....if she has a problem with it, it's her problem!
2006-08-06 13:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Dwight D J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋