come alone and that he wants to buy me drinks and spend quality time with me:) what do you guys think~im not really afraid at all and im bored~~i have a black belt in karate (so i should be ok) so what do you think
2006-08-06 05:35:02 · 37 answers · asked by darkangel1111 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
humm lets see.. Are you going to use black belt on a bullet? I am not saying thats what is going to happen..but how do you know? You can't take a stick to a knife fight! And hell no I wouldn't go alone..Unless your more nuttier then he is! What are you thinking! I would invite everyone I know to go with me..Whats the harm of that?
2006-08-06 05:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely not go, and hopefully he does not know where you live. If you must go, you better go with another couple- a guy and a girl for sure so that you have safety in numbers. This girl I know got a ride home from 2 guys a few weeks ago, and she had been drinking, well they took her home and took turns raping her. Don't be stupid about this. Obviously if he was a stalker, you'd sure know not to go and meet him. I don't know why you used the word stalker. But, you should be scared to meet someone that you know from online only, especially when he says to come alone and he'll buy you drinks. Do not let your drink out of your sight, you don't want to get drugged and date raped. Do not let him follow you home or know where you live. I would seriously consider not going. This sounds shady to me. Don't go just because your bored. You will regret it if you end up raped or worse.
2006-08-06 05:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blind dates are crazy but are they crazier than you. If you wanna have a wild and crazy time then go ahead. I personally would not meet someone offline, go to the club, and instructed to come alone. There is an abundance of lies, games, and craziness when it comes to internet dating as your prince charming turns out to be an old toad. By getting more friends and people that "you can stand", you are more likely to find fun more often. Boredom is the entrance to depression... don't get trapped behind the doors or you may miss the one that has opportunity. As your bored with random thoughts of fun, try to be more rational and find out local events, parties, bars, club, etc ... this way it will put you in the driver seat and not preyed upon. Hope you have fun though. Take care.
2006-08-06 05:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by carolinakres 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I wish all questions were this easy!!! STAY AWAY!!! A black belt in karate is good to have but that's not going to keep you alive if he decides to kill you. We are spending too much money, time and expertise in this country searching for missing women. And then we grieve when the bodies are discovered. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING??????? RUN! And why on earth have you let this person YOU DO NOT KNOW except what he's told you online which may all be lies, lies, lies know where you live??? Please! DON'T GO! Bored is better than dead!!!
2006-08-06 05:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even with a black belt in karate you still might not be safe. If you really want to meet with this person make sure you go with a friend and make sure you go to a well populated are, if he wants to buy you a drink I assume he wants to meet you at a pub, that should be fine, whatever you do, don't let your friend leave you alone with him.
2006-08-06 05:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by pandachocolatefish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. Black belt or not, if he wants to take advantage of you, he'll find a way. If you're bored, call up your friends and go to a movie or the mall or something. Don't go meeting strangers, especially if they want to spend "quality" time with you. You should be smart enough to figure out what "quality" means.
2006-08-06 05:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's alot of weirdos out there, you gotta be on your guard BIGTIME!!! Its a shame we are so negative about people but you hear alot of horror stories? That black belt not much good if he doctors your drink!!! SUSS him out 1st, see him with out him knowing? You could take a mate and hide them in the background?
The guy may well be ok? but can't stress enough ON YOUR GUARD, Keep people informed as to where your going, make sure he knows that to!! BEST A LUCK TOO YOU!!
2006-08-06 05:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who tells a girl "come alone" so he can "buy me drinks" and then wants to "spend some quality time with you" is a person who got roofies on sale by purchasing in bulk...
Have a good time!
2006-08-06 05:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A black belt in karate will not save you from a date rape drug.
If he is a stalker, then you would be a complete fool to ever meet him.
2006-08-06 05:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by ceprn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're meeting in a public place, it's probably safe. Just don't leave to go anywhere else with him until you have had many meetings in public places. If he ends up following you, either KICK HIS *** or call 911 on your cell. It wouldn't hurt to carry a little mace, and if you have seen "Miss Congeniality," you can always "SING"
2006-08-06 05:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋