i was seeing this guy for 8 months and i really really loved him and still do but after 8 months.one fine day he tells me he never loved me in these 8 months and wanted to break up.so we did but after exactly 2 days i got to know from his friend,who likes the girl he cheated me on with,that he was seeing her,i was shocked,i was waiting that he might come back to me but i got to know this! i really love him and finding it difficult to let go of him.i really want him back in my life.we were friends for a week after all this happened and he said he wants to make uo for whatever happened and wanted to have feelings for me.i waited and after a week i realised he still has feelings for that other girl.i have been going crazy thinking about him,i miss him like crazy.i want him in my life.what should i do?
2006-08-06 05:24:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jeez, lady. Grow a backbone. There are almost three billion men out there, dump this loser and get a real guy.
2006-08-06 05:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by EddieMartelli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same position when I was a teenager. After 3 years of desperation, pain, mistrust, and getting my self-esteem knocked in the dirt, I finally gathered up the courage to leave the jerk. Trust me, it was the best thing I ever did. I've had much better relationships since then, because I learned my lesson well. I now have the most awesome guy in the world, and I never would have guessed I could be this happy. That cheat of yours is nothing but a lesson to be learned, and besides, in a few months, you will have gotten over him (trust me on this, we women are emotionally stronger than we get credit for), and you will also be available for that hunk you meet while you are out with your friends!
2006-08-06 05:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is worth the time and effort, then wait. It's easier said then done. Unfortunately, even if nothing ever happens, the feelings will always be there. When I was in your situation, I wouldn't waste my time on flaky, shad people. It is also a lot easier to waste your time on somebody or somebodies that would like to get to know you, that is the first key, and not just one sided. Don't waste your time on somebody that isn't QUITE as interested in you as you are in them. Much more fun to go out and just talk to people and see what happens. ;) lol Hope it helps. YOU still have to choose. The CHOICE is up to YOU.
2006-08-06 10:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by natedog0037 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can find a place in your heart to forgive him. But there are plenty o' fish in the sea. If you just can't quit thinkin of him, then go out with another guy, and let your mind move to this new guy. After a couple of dates with the new guy, plant a big wet one on him and you'll forget all about this cheater!
2006-08-06 05:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by LaSqueegee[= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever take back your cheating boyfriend. He will have the courage to do it again coz he will think it's ok with you. Familiarize yourself with the grounds for legal separation/divorce. It is a lot easier to dump a cheating boyfriend than a cheating husband because you haven't tied the knot yet. Believe me! Just remember the song of Gloria Gaynor......"I Will Survive"
2006-08-06 05:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grotesque unswerving Boyfriend. i stumbled on the greater I fell in love with him, the greater it replaced how I observed him. I went for multiple adult men that have been warm that have been no stable at something i wanted. yet I gave this one medium finding boy a huge gamble and It exchange into the main suitable ingredient Ive performed in my entire existence. He acted lots greater effectual than the nice and cozy boys and now with the aid of my eyes he's the main suitable ingredient.
2016-10-01 13:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him in your life. Life is hard enough as it is, you don't need someone who will only make it harder. Let him go. Move on. In time you'll realize it was the right thing to do. He doesn't love you and never will. Don't waste your time on him.
2006-08-06 07:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes really a jerk.girl its time to move on and let mr.player do the same.he just wants a little booty
2006-08-06 05:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by william h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no he cheated on ya once he will do it again hon he is not worth it when a man cheats on his woman this shows me one thing and one thing only he dont give a **** about her and all he wants is to get his pecker wet think about it hon
2006-08-06 05:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no, no, no, no. men come and they go. there is no shortage of men where we have to take crazy sh*t like this. you deserve better than that. those feelings that you are having now will go away. don't play yourself by going back to him.
2006-08-06 05:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋