i've got 2 kids which will be a problem for his family to accept, his family is his real priority... we started knowing it's only temporary but i'm feeling to keep him for life... what shall i do?
2006-08-06 05:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by Sapphire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well its not in muslim religion to refuse ladies with children , its's only a few people who has a tradition for that , so he can take his own dicisions and im sure his family will accept him sooner or later no matter what his decision is , thats an eastern people habit.
cultures get combined by time , only if people wants to let it
good luck lady
2006-08-14 03:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off you should never have had children with this person. You're trying to put the cart b4 the horse. You knew he was muslim, yet you continued this relationship and had children!! Your BF will leave you in the end .....his family and cultural values will always come b4 you.
You yourself stated you both knew the relationship was ONLY TEMPORARY!! Quit being his BOOTY call and cut this MUSLIM dude FREE!!.....
Protect yourself and your children. Secure support for your children!!!
Have some pride in yourself....YOU KNOW what you need to do....have a BACKBONE....and do it!
2006-08-13 23:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When family disagrees, you have a hell, not a life. Just because you have kids, don't think you have no options. I had problems with my in laws 6 years ago when I first got married, and now it has only gotten worse. Be strong, and either make him move away with you or leave him.
2006-08-13 15:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by sheba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better to marry a person in a different race, than a person who has a different religion or beliefs. Religion is imbedded in their minds and soul. Color of the skin is that's all color. Especially muslims. If you want to be with him, you have to change everything about you. You have to be a submissive woman, and do what his family does. If you are really in love with him, be prepared....
2006-08-14 01:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it now. It will not work! He will tell you anything you want to hear so that he can still have his physical needs filled......but he will never marry you! I had a friend go through the same thing, they even had a kid together.......then he went off the bahamas to marry a chick his parents selected for him!
2006-08-13 13:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY ME BEING A MUSLIM IAM TELLING U THAT Always family comes first to them he will never hurt his parents so think again
2006-08-06 05:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't marry a muslim......once married they become VERY controlling.....will not let you go anywhere or do anything...just how they are raised
2006-08-06 05:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by htowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-08-13 15:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by lost in space 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that sweetheart, forget wat he tells u, at the end he will marry a muslim virgin as his parents dictate
2006-08-06 05:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would run from him as fast as i can!!!!
2006-08-14 01:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋