My boyfriend told me that he has a diaper fetish. And he wants me to put him in a diaper and treat him like a little baby for a couple of hours a month. I think this is really strange but I have always wanted a baby. So should I babysit him, lock him out while he is diapered or send him home to his mommie forever! Also, he is a good provider and pays all my bills and has all ready bought me a new car.
2006-08-06 05:08:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Do you need a nanny? I need a new car too.
2006-08-06 05:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You have nothing to lose by trying.
You say you have always wanted a baby, will babying your boyfriend fulfill that desire until that becomes a reality?
I had a girlfriend that wanted to have a baby and physically could not. It was at her suggestion that I let her diaper me. It is something that I would not have done myself but because I loved her and wanted to help her fulfill a dream, I let her diaper me. Long story short, she liked it, I liked it and we continued the practice for almost 3 years until she moved west because of her job and I couldn't go because of mine.
I will always remember those days now, each time I put my diaper on.
What I am saying, is try it. It may bring you closer together like it did my girlfriend and I. If you don't like it, explain to him why you don't like it. The one thing I suggest though, is even if you don't like it, do it once in awhile anyway, to keep him happy and strengthen the bond between the two of you. Once every six months even, would be sufficient. I wish my current wife would.
Try it, enjoy, see where it leads, good luck.
2006-08-06 13:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well....a couple that has a good healthy relationship often do experiment in the bedroom. Fetishes fall into this category.
The question is, are you comfortable with this? and if it goes well, you can expect it will be a likely frequent occurence.
As long as you are game, why not? EVERYONE has baggage...if this is the worst you get, that ain't too bad.
(just be sure that before you decide to have kids or marry, he's willing to share the baby spotlight and not get jealous! I'm suspecting one who wants to be the baby, may be a poor father candidate)
2006-08-06 05:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lori A 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If it sounds like fun to you, go for it!
If it doesn't, let him know it doesn't.
Might want to make it clear how far your willing to go. I personally wouldn't want to change any poopy diapers!... but I'm not you.
Just be clear with him before you guys start playing how much of the game you willing to go along with, and what's out of bounds.
If he's ok with you not wanting to play along (which you sound like you are), I would[b]n't[/b] recommend dumping him over it. You guys could probably get on healthy without it.
"Roleplaying" can help keep relationships healthy and happy. If you let him pick the game this time, then you have unspoken points that you get to pick the game next time. Then next time he can fufill you secret desires.
2006-08-10 02:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by My Two Cents 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have severe IBS and I am a man. I at times wear adult diapers I don't have a relationship because of IBS
2014-07-30 20:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you marry the guy and have kids with him, you'll be doing diapers anyway. Why not get a head start?
2006-08-07 18:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by bubbacornflakes 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. If you love him why not. It could be wore than that. Give it a try see how you like it. Lay down some ground rules for both you and him so that you too are ok with every thing.
2006-08-07 07:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by ogpeanut6 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are give and take. It sounds like you could stand to give a little. But if this makes you really uncomfortable, you will end up resenting him. So, the answer is ultimately yours.
2006-08-06 05:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by jmiller 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If it sounds fun to you, go for it. Just be sure he doesn't crap himself and expect you to clean it, or want to wear a diaper in public.
If it sounds disgusting or disturbing to you, it's time for a new b/f.
2006-08-06 05:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by theboz 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Only if you want to. Just because he provides for you doesn't mean you are happy. You do what's best for YOU.
2006-08-06 05:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Lil' Dog 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Being happy in a relationship is what matters. But if you plan to marry him, be sure you know what you are getting into.
2006-08-06 05:14:56 · answer #11 · answered by kittybriton 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋