now she is not talking to me for one thing or another. hubby says i go out to much so didnt go with her. i feel stuck in the middle. any suggestions?
2006-08-06 04:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by shariwharton 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah tell them to both grow up and it's bothering you most of all that the two people you care about are fighting and you dont wanna see it anymore or you're gonna do something they both won't want you to do
2006-08-06 05:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why??? There sounds like you all need to have a long talk and figure out what the problem is. Best friends are precious, but remember now that you are married, your husband should be your best friend, be careful who you give your loyalty to.
Put the shoe on the other foot, or you in your husbands place, how does it feel, in your friends place, how does that feel?
Neither are very confident about your loyalty by the sounds of things? Good luck!
2006-08-06 12:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should always come first. I am not saying don't go out with your friends. Just cut back some. Your friends don't have to like him and vice versa. If she is not speaking to you because of her dislike for your husband, you may have to ask yourself if she is a true friend. True friends do not play games like that.
2006-08-06 12:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to spend time with your friend, just keep asking your hubby to do stuff. If he is a typical guy he will get tired of this and want you to do stuff with your friend.
2006-08-06 12:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by anthony g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is jealous. ditch the b*tch. If you are in a happy and healthy relationship she needs to get over it. If she has genuine cause for concern then ure being a fool.
2006-08-06 12:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Allasse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them both, individually, what the problem is.
They are probably in a far better position to tell you than anyone on here.
2006-08-06 12:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Maids Moreton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guarantee your husband and friend have had a fling or some sort of sexual realtionship. In fact i am 95% sure!
2006-08-06 12:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Gavisinho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens. they both do not want to be usurped. your husband is your soulmate. tell him nobody can take his place. friends are just those u share moments with. husbands u share the rest of your life. get my point.
2006-08-06 15:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mojirola DT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They either fancy one another or they are having an affair. Sorry to pop your bubble, it happened to me. Check his txt messages and phone calls recieved.
2006-08-06 12:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by yorkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would honor my husband. He should come first....or at least that is what most marriage vows say.
2006-08-06 12:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋