Why are you men so insecure. Have you ever Hit a woman or called her out of her name. Why do men treat women so bad especially the ones that are dependant on them. Are there any GOOD men out there.
2006-08-06 04:50:40 · 24 answers · asked by Ms. C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have NEVER hit a woman, no matter how badly she asked for it....some women just push and push, never know when to leave well enough alone. I treat women very well, and if I miss the mark, I expect to be told what I did wrong so I can learn from it. Men are NOT mind readers. IF they ask, "what is wrong," I don't take kindly to "Nothing" as an answer when there is obviously something going on. When I hear, "Nothing," I have learned to take them at their word. I do NOT expect to be punished for not knowing there IS something wrong. When that happens too often, it is time to say, "Adios, amigo." And, by and large, most men are very good people. Unfortunately, most men who act badly in the eyes of a woman, are often lead to believe they are not bad until the final straw..then they are bewildered and have no clue as to what is going on. IF you want a good man, then expect one. Settle for nothing less, and the man will behave accordingly. IF you continue to choose bad men, you have a problem and want to repeat past mistakes...not very wise. If you are only attracted to bad boys, do not blame men, in general, blame yourself for not wising up and recognizing a good guy when he comes along. All too often, the good guys are left on the shelf for long periods because they do NOT present a "danger" and an "excitement." IF that is what women look for in a man, why are they so surprised when the guy turns out to be dangerous and a bad boy? This one really stumps me.
2006-08-06 05:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all men are insecure, I have never hit a woman. Sounds like you need to search for a man in a different place. Good luck.
2006-08-06 11:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN are insecure??? Give me a ****ing break! Can you name ONE woman in the world (dykes excluded) that don't have to be ****ing romanced after ten years of marriage? Just when do men get to STOP dating for God's sake? And heaven help us if we don't swoon over our mates constantly because she will leap at the chance to cheat in oder to satisfy her 'emotional needs'. Women are so wrapped up in emotions that they fail to see they have married a real jerk of a man that hits, abuses and hates. Women are so wrapped up in their emotions that they fail to see they have married a good man that adores them, cares for them and protects them but has failed the 'women emotion/romance test'.
There are plenty of us good men out here, but be warned... the smart ones have had an a$$ full of the emotional roller coaster you babes love to ride on and we refuse to partake of it anymore.
2006-08-06 12:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everybody thinks he is GOOD but reality is far away. It is easier said than done. For a good relationship both the partners have to be a bit compromising and supportive to each other and if it is so then question of analysis of GOOD or BAD will not arise.
2006-08-06 12:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by thinkgood 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i am here.....most men treat women so bad because they think it gives them power over the woman if she is scared ........these are not men they are boys and they are going to be very lonely acting like that
2006-08-06 11:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ms.C yes as there are good women as do good men are also there, as the women has more love & effection she should change the men who is harsh with her replace the angry with love every thing will follow good
2006-08-06 11:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by anil k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cowboy Bill has this one covered.
The operative term here might be dependent. Maybe a little more independence and maturity would attract a more caring guy.
2006-08-06 13:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i am a very good man i never hit a women in my life i respect women a great deal that probley why i dont have one because i am to nice. i am a nice guy i have a nice life nice car great career i dont under stand any of this and i have 2 loveley little girls
that i have raise on my own.i dont under stand women.
2006-08-06 12:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I would never hit a woman," (she might hit back) and there are good men out there,just not very many of us!
2006-08-06 12:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
iam nt a gud one but neighter i have hit my gf or called her in any obsurd manner. there are very few men who misbehave with women
and ya there are many good guys out there waiting for u
2006-08-06 11:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by rishi anand 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋