That someone who really isn't good for you and you should cut it off but you just can't bring yourself to do it?
2006-08-06 04:49:46 · 20 answers · asked by fullofsugaw 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There's a boy that I really fancied in college.. I hated him on first sight.. but got to know him better online.. and he changed my life completely.. he made me a more compassionate person, and changed the judgmental attitude that I had before..
We were never together, because I quitted school along the way, and I didn't believe in dating and studying at the same time.. But we cherished each other, and all the support that we gave each other..
As we grew older, we kept less contact over the years. However, he's always been kept in a corner of my heart, and I still love him dearly after 6 years. It is harmful because as I step into relationships, I tend to compare my boyfriends with him.. and I always see the inadequacy of others because this love of mine is just too good to be true.. He was the sweetest existence in my life.. and I believe I couldn't find another.
He's the sweetest form of danger..
2006-08-06 05:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 12:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there ...even when ur friends or ur inner voice is telling u to get away...u still dont listen ...no matter how hard best thing is to get away ...ull either end not associating with that person(eventually) or worse yet screw up your life while they in yours...told u ive been there done that. if u even asking u already know what the answer is ...u just at a point that u dont want to admit that in judging this person u could be sooooooo wrong.! get out while u still have ur sanity and some dignity...it hard but it bettter then waiting for the #$%$ to hit the fan and u end up in a worse situation...
2006-08-06 05:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. and i agree that it is difficult. but, hey! so is life. so ask yourself, what is more important? life or that 'someone'? you have to be stronger. as you grow stronger the weaker your problem will become. you dont have to learn to live with it. make your own choices. learn to look life in the face. strength and determination is the only key. if i can do it, why can't you? after all i'm also just as human as you are. i'm not super-human. just tell yourself about the negatives, the positives will always emerge victorious. and the 'positives' is none other than you.
2006-08-06 05:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by freaky_ferrari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, My ex-wife. If I could walk away and never see her agaain that would be great. But we have a child that turns 1 tomorow and I can not leave my son. Even if I only get to see him 4 days a month.
2006-08-06 04:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by dean_moriarty00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, my ex. He was like poison to me but I just couldn't get him out of my system. He cheated on me, got violent with, left me to raise our children on my own, got in trouble with the law and had the law coming to my house looking for him, had his women approaching me on the street and at my work, hid in bushes during our separation and watched me, lied continously, etc. I almost had a nervous breakdown trying to hold on to him. Even after I divorced him, I agreed to try to reconcile more than once. Until 2 years ago, I was still sleeping with him occassionally, but I just didn't allow him to live with me. I knew that he was living with another woman. Now, I thank God that he is finally out of my life but he's still not totally out of my system. I cut myself off from him. He is in prison and I don't accept calls or go visit. Some people would be shocked to know the affect that he still had on me after all I went through as a result of my relationship with him, but I can't deny it. Our involvement was like being bitten by a snake as it's venom was shutting my body and soul down little by little. I am so glad that I am away from him now. I ask myself why and I know that it is because I had false hope and refused to accept him for the person that he was. I wanted him to be who I wanted him to be but now I better understand that in life, "It is what it is."
2006-08-06 05:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, my ex-gf, she hurt me at all level and I did as well. We just could agree on many things. I loved her and she did as well. Thats the only reason we stay together for so long. But I think loosing her was the best thing that happened in my life. I still love her with all my hurt but I needed to move on.
2006-08-06 04:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But one day he crossed a line I wasn't even aware existed after 17 years of marriage. Now we're divorced, and I'm happy.
2006-08-06 04:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,,, This is why I move thousands of miles away... Yet I still feel and dream of that Pearson...I don't want to I just do..And from time to time I Have to talk to them on the phone.. and I hate it.. But because of a joint child I have to...
2006-08-06 04:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it took me six years to pull away from my ex-husband. He threatened my family if I left. Finally once he found a new girlfriend, a topless dancer, he was willing to let me have a divorce.
2006-08-06 04:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋