My ex who spent 2 months lying to and cheating on me. Then moved out of our house leaving me in a fairly bad financial situation, now wants £1000 off me for things we bought togeather for the house. I can't afford to pay her and don't feel like I should. What do you guys think?
2006-08-06 04:02:37 · 13 answers · asked by dave_e_wood 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im a women
Don't do it Dave whats wrong with the new guy putting his hand in his pocket... How dare she treat you like this and then expect money off you..
Glad to see your so held together .. I would also get some info off the citizen advice if you live in the UK, so you have some thing to back you up!!!!
2006-08-06 05:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by cammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a guy but if she left i would tell her tough (to bad) and to settle it in court (if you were married) and do not pay her anything or give her anything until it goes to court. if you were not married and she left i would just give her her clothes and what she came into the relationship with and nothing more not even money! (example: if she brought a bed,tv, nicknacks, etc.what ever she had, then return them,) you keep whatever the 2 of you bought together as yours.
2006-08-06 11:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I am on your side. It sounds like she is just trying to get as much from you as possible. My husband's ex-housemate tried to do the same to him. Don't give her anything. She left you high and dry and she's trying to get more out of you that you don't have.
2006-08-06 11:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is reasonable of her to ask for the money not unless she paid for the stuff out of her own pocket but even then well...its still seriously taking the michael isn't it.Don't give in to her demands and seek legal advice.
2006-08-06 11:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by rhieanon6108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You walked out and didn't take it with you."
Your ex's lying and cheating was more important than the money poured into PROPS that were then ABANDONED.
Keep the things and pay her nothing.
2006-08-06 11:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to get lost. If you have some things you dont want any more then give her them, but do not give her money. why should you? Would she give you anything.
2006-08-07 12:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by megajen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She souunds like a cheeky Bit*h! I'd tell her where to go!
Good luck.
2006-08-06 12:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even think of paying her
2006-08-06 11:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by pebs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no, you could always hand some stuff over that you no longer want.
definately do not give money
2006-08-06 11:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get stuffed, move on
2006-08-06 11:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋