this is going to sound crazy but why do i like to being spanked by my bf and at first?

Question

he only did it soft bec he did not want to hurt me but last night i ask him to spank me hard and he did and it felt nice but then when he was done I ask him if he would do it again and he told me I dont know maybe sometime but he told me that he was not in to spanking me that why he never spanked me befour bec he did not know that i was in to it but i am in to he did do it last night bec i ask him to spank me and he did it soft and then i ask him to do it harder and he did and it felt so nice to have him spank me Hard but then when i ask him if he would do it again to me hard he told me maybe but he told me that he was not in to but i love it when he did it hard how do i get him to spank me again hard like he did last night he told me that he could see that i like it so maybe he will do it again but i want him to do it again please help me ???????

help me to get my bf to want to spank me hard again what would u do to give him a hint to spank me again and hard ??

Answer 1

First you should explain to him that you are into it, that you enjoy it and he's not hurting you or doing anything bad to you.

Suggest he use a wooden spoon or hairbrush to spank you with if he's not willing to spank you hard by hand. Work out a safe word with him so he knows when you reach your limit. make him part of it rather than just the guy who is doing the spanking. If he says its too kinky maybe you can try going to one of the spanking websites or yahoo groups to show him how popular this fetish is.

And my last suggestion is, if you get physically excited by it, just figure out a way to let him know. Once he sees how much you like it he may just start to realize spanking is not such a bad thing after all.

In my experience just telling a guy how much it turned me on was enough. Its a lot easier to convince a guy to give a spanking than it is to convince a girl to accept one.

Answer 2

No, you're not crazy, just a bit kinky. Lots of girls love being spanked. The best way to get him to spank you as hard and often as you want is probably to show him how much it turns you on. Each time he gives you a good hard spanking, 'reward' him with passionate sex - maybe including something he particularly enjoys, like a bj. The better the sex, the more - with luck - he'll be willing to spank you, and the more he'll start getting into it himself.

Answer 3

Sometimes if you were not spanked as a child,you thrive to be disciplined if this is the case then tell him that,and was he spanked or abused,maybe that's why he don't want to do that,tell him it is his job to fulfill your sexual desires as is yours,do things he likes when you are pleasing him and he should do the same.Careful though in case he later gets carried away thinking you really want to be spanked when you might not really want this at the time,I once read a story of a wife who liked to be raped by her husband,one day he thought she was just playing fact she wasn't she really didn't want to do it,it turned into reality,She really got raped by her husband.Careful what you ask for!They made up a key word she would say if she really didn't want it.Also if he gets to liking it too much he may just turn into hardcore rapist!Please be CAREFUL what you ask for.

Answer 4

Have some tools ready, next to you on the bed. Wooden spoon, belt, hairbrush.....tell him that you will give him the best bj of his life if he spanks you real hard. Tell him to smack your a s s while you are going down on him. Tell him you want to play with yourself while he spanks you. And tell him he better leave marks, you want it to glow a nice beautiful pink, bright red.....tell him you want bruises, so that you won't be able to sit on your
a s s for awhile afterwards. Reward him with anything he desires if he gives you what you want. And if that doesn't work.....I'm available. Nothing like marking up a sweet willing bottom. Nothing more erotic.

Answer 5

Ok, your question is the definition of a run-on sentence. Seriously, what the hell happens at school these days? Have you ever heard of a period?

ps...if you like spank get spank if you dont like spank dont get spank he will spank if he wants or not if he doesnt want either way is ok not to weird did you get that i'm trying to write so you can understand

Answer 6

Hey Kimberley, try this, get yourself a tiny plaid skirt and put it on with your tallest heels and a tight blouse. Walk into the principals office and tell him that you are the naughty school girl who has been sent to him to be punished! He should get the hint and he will have you over his knee spanking your butt very soon after that. I do this with my hubby and I get spanked followed by great sex!

Answer 7

You have to tell him what you want. Make him understand that you want it hard. Tell him that if he spanks you, you will be turned on and in turn, he will be getting it more often.

Answer 8

Your question is a mess but... my idea is to walk up to your b/f and grab him by the hair. Pull his face back to look deeply into his eyes. In your deepest purrr tell him " Look. One of us is going to get the spanking of a life time.... is that gonna be me or you, biatch?" lol

Answer 9

you are a girl right out of my dreams. Bend over and let me spank you like the bad little girl you are.

Answer 10

When you are in doggie position tell him to spank your booty and when he does tell him oohh baby I love it when you do that ( men like encouragement and to know they are pleasing you). As far as suggestions, tell him that you want the doggie style position becasue he can please you in so many more ways then regular missionary or other positions.