You've asked a profound question and given little detail. I suspect that you're facing an arranged marriage and are dreading the intimate aspect. I am sorry. Choice should be an option for all!
1. Yes, is the simple answer. But it gets very complex thereafter.
2. It has to do with the mental attitude/make-up of the person concerned. This is also easiest if you are talking about yourself achieving an orgasm. You need to be honest & determine what presses your buttons.
3. If you're speaking about another person attaining an orgasm without "assistence" or penetration, the entire subject becomes much harder to address. The answer is: Maybe/sometimes - but generally a guy needs "help" in the form of touch, visuals and a response in the button department. To pull this off, the people involved usually "role" play but masturbation/basic contact is usually required. It helps if your partner is willing to do this because they find it fun.
4. Can a man achieve an orgasm without masturbating/contact. Yes.
A. As a "wet dream" while he sleeps.
B. In the real world - not often! Some Yogi's have claimed and demonstrated this, even reversing the flow back into their bodies. It takes enormous mental control and experience to do this. But I doubt that this is what you have in mind.
It takes time to explore these options with a partner and to learn what their buttons are. Perhaps you can open this discussion with the person concerned? Honesty is always best and may get you over a tough time. Sincerely though, I feel you need a serious chat with an older, experienced and liberal woman on how-to-cope with this area!
The very very best of luck!
2006-08-06 04:42:12
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answered by redhands 2
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What's wrong with orgasm during sex?
2006-08-06 10:50:21
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answered by mischievious 2
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Yes. I can have an orgasm just from having my nipples tickled!! True, I tell you!!
2006-08-06 10:42:35
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answered by wondering 3
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Masterbate, just stimulate the clit. That's what I do, and it works so well each time. I can get numerous amounts of orgasms by just doing that.
2006-08-06 12:35:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah masturbate.
2006-08-06 10:40:28
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answered by Arnie 2
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you can use dildo
2006-08-06 10:41:44
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answered by Rutvij S 1
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