we the people can watch two womens engage in sex but to watch mens we say it's nasty.
2006-08-06 03:35:11 · 14 answers · asked by joanrking 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Like it or not, it's still a man's world. While even "straight" men are turned on watching mm, they are afraid/ashamed to admit it. But they have no problem admitting to being turned on by a little ff action.
2006-08-06 09:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by pagan_priests 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women are beautiful creatures and anything about women gets us so engaged. Two women making out is a turn on to most guys and some girls take it as a way to tease guys or some are just into it. Men on the contrary, are supposed to be the ones who are tough and strong and to protect women. We can give up a coupla ladies getting it on but not men turning into women or gays.
2006-08-06 03:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Staccato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's most of the straight men who find it hot, the straight women aren't as freaked by it since many women would do it as well. Straight men hate the idea of two guys going at it and straight woman consider a great looking gay guy as a waste.
2006-08-06 05:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know! this makes no sense to me at all.
straight guys live in the illusion of porn and hope (though in vain) that somehow fantasy will become reality.
that's why you always hear them say that they wish they'd catch their girlfriend or wife having sex with another woman, just so they can finally say that tired cliched line:
"you two need some help there?"
they don't realize that, if they did actually stumble upon such a thing, it's probably because they didn't expect to be caught. and, if they're fooling around with another woman, it's more than likely because they don't do "it" for them anymore.
they just think their ***** are so magical that everyone wants it, including the bullest of dykes.
what's the saying they like to say...
"there's no such thing as a lesbian, they just need a good dicking?" or something like that.
too bad, the same can't be said the other way around.
i seriously doubt any women hope and pray to come home to find their boyfriend/husband in bed with his *** in the air and a big dude behind them.
:( doesn't really have the same effect, does it?
2006-08-06 05:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the fact that straight men are the ones that make the biggest stink about gay people. They think it is hot for two women to get it on and they think that they can watch and get involed in it. Because no woman really wants just a woman. But they see two guys going at it and they think it is gross. That is what I know and have heard about.
2006-08-06 05:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by cml75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right when you say that lesbian behavior is more widely accepted than homosexual behavior. Apparently, female sexuality is much more likely to be fluid (i.e. bisexual) while male sexuality is more likely to be dichotomous and rigid (i.e. either gay or straight.)
Some studies have shown that there are anatomical differences in certain brain structures (the hypothalamus and anterior commissure) in homosexual and heterosexual males. No corresponding dichotomy was found in the brain structures of lesbian and straight women.
Another study suggests that homosexual orientation in men may be a genetically inherited trait. However, all of these studies have been criticized for their methodological biases that reflect the homophobic prejudices of the general public.
Studies using plethysmographs -- an instrument that measures physiological arousal -- also point to a biological answer for explaining the differences in male and female sexuality. Heterosexual women hooked up to a plethysmograph showed symptoms of physiological arousal in response to lesbian erotica; even those women who denied having interest in sex with another woman showed arousal in these tests.
Heterosexual men, on the other hand, were much less likely to experience physiological arousal while watching male homosexual acts. Thus, women appear to be more likely to be bi-curious. Other insights into the topic come from the differences in arousal experienced by the sexes.
Biologically, women require a longer period of time to reach arousal and thus need more foreplay than men do. Lesbian acts are often described as continuous foreplay or "all play," and, thus, may appeal to many women who crave longer foreplay and longer sexual interaction than they receive with their male partners. Of course, it is difficult to separate the biological predisposition from the social conditioning described below.
2006-08-06 03:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by ioncayah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO anal sex involved in lesbian relationships. Im serious I think straight guys have a real problem accepting Gay men because of the anal sex.
2006-08-06 03:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While some women like porn, most of us don't find sight as sexually stimulating as it seems to be for men. Straight men aren't interested in watching other men.
Tammi Dee
2006-08-06 04:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men want to fantasize 2 women and take part in it, or the fact they have never seen 2 women have sex in real life. i am sure that men have watched lesbian porno, but they want to see it in real life. men thinks that 2 men having sex is disgusting and they won't have any part in watching that
2006-08-06 05:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by beckyschristine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a horrible truth that in todays society, people would rather hear about woman's problems, on TV as plots, blah blah blah, rather than hearing about men's problems about being gay, or whatever the problem is.
2006-08-06 13:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋