I meet this really hot girl. We have been on 2 dates. The first date lasted 10 hours. We spent the whole time talking in a restaurant. After the date she told me to call her. I called and we talked for about 2 hours. At the end of the conversation we made plans to go to the club and she said she would call me. She never called. I sent her a message just telling her that I was thinking about her. She responded with she was just talking about me with a friend. She said that he friends have a nick name for me “10 hour Tameka”. We ended up going to the club I had a good time. The next day I call her and she does not answer or call me back. Could I possible be getting the cold shoulder, should I tell her I like her??? Please help
2006-08-06 03:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by mastapes21 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, it sounds like you're getting the cold shoulder. It's hard to know why, because you only just met her.
I'd save your dignity, and wait for her to get in touch at this point. If she doesn't, just move on. Sorry.
2006-08-06 03:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is her version of playing hard to get. I understand that you really like this girl, but i wouldn't hang around the phone, either. She knows your number, you've made a few moves and now the ball is in her court. I know that's not comfortable, but I really wouldn't put all my cards on the table right now, especially since you don't really know her that well. I realize that when you have spent time with her, it was for an extended period, but still, 3 dates is still a small amount of time.
Get yourself out there and keep yourself available. She knows where to reach you. Just because you like her doesn't mean you should take yourself out of the dating scene. Keep your options open.....who knows, she still might call. And if you act confident and secure and are having fun, you'll be all the more attractive to her.
2006-08-06 14:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief...if I had a couple of dates with someone and they were "hounding" me, I wouldn't answer the phone either. Settle down, control yourself, and get on with life. IF this one wants to talk to you, she knows how to get a hold of you. I can tell you that if someone had a nickname for me after one date, and that nickname was a shared thing, I would assume that the impression wasn't as positive as you think it is. Let it go.
2006-08-06 11:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u really like this woman. maybe she is occupied. what does she do for a living? she has kids? if no then maybe she doesn't want to come off as desperate. i know some women wait a couple of days before calling a man after a date. don't call her for a couple of days and see what happens. u shouldnt be the only one waiting up for a call.
2006-08-06 10:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did something odd happen at the club? You might just be crowding her, let her breath a little and don't call her, let her make the next move...
2006-08-06 10:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone.Shes a tease or has someone else.Dont let her humiliate you again.Shes a loser.If she calls ,tell her you've found someone that appreciates your company and your happy and for her not to call again,your only going to get hurt.Good luck,hon.
2006-08-09 18:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does have your no, so if she wants she can always contact you, but dont let her use you, when she has nothing better to do, stay safe girl
2006-08-06 21:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by maltese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into you, ie Sex in the City saying. Move on.
2006-08-06 13:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS SOUNDS JUST LIKE A QUESTION I RESPONDED TO EARLIER.
2006-08-09 02:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just not that into you....................
2006-08-06 12:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋