I usually get over someone about the first week post break up. I am having trouble this time around. I actually considered at one point marrying this girl, but now I just want to get over her and move on. I know that I sound like a wuss, but i need some advice from you all. Take your best shot.
2006-08-06 03:26:59 · 26 answers · asked by alter_ego 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's never easy to get over someone. It sounds as if you really cared about this person. You may always love her in your heart. Time is the only thing that helps! trust me, I have lived this so much! You just have to keep busy and do things that you enjoy. In time it will seem less painful and you may meet someone else, and see that everything happens for a reason! Good luck to you.
2006-08-06 03:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by mjcat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I don't think we ever really get over it. We just have to learn how to move on. It's not an easy thing to do trust me I know. It's something that I have delt with and believe me the sooner you move on the better. Because all you're doing is holding onto something that at this time was not meant to be. Try making new friends or hand out with the ones you have. Go out take a deep breathe and enjoy life one day at a time. You'll feel better once you get out there have fun life is to short to dwell on the what if's. Time will heal all wounds, you just have to want to let it heal. Take care and good luck.
2006-08-06 10:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, by experince i can tell you, ONLY TIME will heal. here's some advice though: Try to keep yourself busy (such as hanging out with friends and etc...), Don't put a wall around your heart to where you wont be hurt again because if you do that then you more an likely you will find that it's hard to date and let someone else in, I know this one is hard but try not to think about it,Try not to dwell on things such as gifts the person gave your or pictures you have together and etc...Just to let ya know, no matter what you do, there will always be a part of her in your heart since you really loved her. So you wont "totally" forget her. I hope this helps!!!
2006-08-06 10:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend the rest of the weekend feeling sorry for yourself and then make a committment to move on. Plan each day and what you are going to do to make it through in a peaceful manner. Have no contact at all.....nothing. Plan to go out next weekend but not looking for girls. Do something social and fun with friends. Do the same thing next week and every week after. You will see, that the time will make things fade away. You will have some hard moments but that is okay. You may want to read some self-help books and take stock in who you are and make positive changes.
2006-08-06 10:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there so I understand. Well, after a severe break-up I had, I was traumatized for a long time until I read (Playboy I think) that the best way to get over someone is to find someone new.
Good Luck
2006-08-06 10:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is correct.....
Studies show it will take 1/2 the time to get over someone whom you loved.
Example: Dating for 6 months...you will be ok after 3 months...
Married for 15 years, you'll be ok by year 8.
2006-08-06 10:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by JOEYSMOM2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably go through a period of mourning if you really loved this girl. Try spending time with other people you care about and doing other things to keep you from dwelling on it. Eventually you will feel better and ready to move on. Part of losing someone you love is a period of mourning. Hope you feel better soon.
2006-08-06 10:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by jen52978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you had done before. Just move on. You will find some one, Maybe your moving to fast take some time and have fun before settling down. Good Luck Pat
2006-08-06 10:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are harder to get off your mind. I had some people on my mind that were there for years. And just wish I could of got rid of them. I've been married for 6 yrs now and every once in a whiole my ex who I left for my husband still pops into my mind once in a while but I knew it would'nt work for us.
2006-08-06 10:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, it took me 3 months to every year I was with My ex. Give yourself time. Be patient, and take care of yourself. That is if you are sure it is over. Getting over somebody you care about isn't something you can do in 24 hours. It is like you cut you leg. It needs to heal, and it hurts.
2006-08-06 10:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋